tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-62322054428877741772024-03-14T00:16:22.123+08:00社團法人台灣親子共學教育促進會(The Association of Parent Participating Education in Taiwan)
本會之設立,期望結合國內外專業教育論述與科技資源,成立親子共學平台,建立親子共學支援系統,有效發展符合台灣現況,與時俱進的親職教養技能,並成為父母及家庭主要教養者之互助園地。Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1361125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-76578704082917377742023-04-07T22:26:00.001+08:002023-04-07T22:26:02.812+08:00【新聞稿】放下懲戒,管教不越界 --給孩子一個沒有打罵的童年<p>針對此次民法1085的修正草案,台灣親子共學教育促進會收集了兩百多位嘗試正面教養父母的心聲,從父母的意見中,我們整理出一些資料。</p><p><b>首先是「對於民法1085條的修正草案有何看法?」,父母支持的看法有三大類:</b></p><p>1、很支持,與時俱進,表示政府在人權與兒童權利上的重視與進步。</p><p>2、修法與否,對大部分家長沒太大差別,但是卻可以保護被嚴重方式對待的兒童,支持修法。</p><p>3、除了修法,更希望政府有足夠的方式支持父母們。</p><p></p><p><b>再來是,「在執行不罵教孩子的期間,你認為最困難的是什麼?」,我們整理出六大類:</b></p><p>1、在遇到困境時,還能好好控管情緒很困難!</p><p>2、在育兒日常遇到小孩各式各樣的問題,常常感到沒有方法,會有不知所措的無力感。</p><p>3、想要嘗試不打罵孩子,但是生活周遭常常感受到旁人的眼光,認為不打就等於沒有教,壓力很大。</p><p>4、腦中很容易會浮現的是過往的教養經驗,在情急之下就打了小孩,但又超後悔。</p><p>5、當自己感覺疲憊,又沒有後援時,身心狀態不佳,就想用最快的方式「打」來解決。</p><p>6、需要很花時間,但生活的餘裕有限。</p><p></p><p>從這些資料我們看到,即便是有決心嘗試不打孩子教育的家長,在執行的路上也一樣充滿了各式各樣的困難,期盼有足夠的方式協助家長一起做到,讓家長的無助感得到支持與幫忙。</p><p></p><p><b>最後,詢問家長「在執行不打罵孩子的心得是什麼?」</b>家長也提出一些面向,最多人都有提到的有幾個點,我們整理如下:</p><p>1、很花時間,但親子關係很緊密。</p><p>2、意外發現,一段時間後小孩變得更能好好說話,溝通能力也比較好。</p><p>3、小孩更有同理心。</p><p>4、發現小孩對很多事情比較願意嘗試,有自信有勇氣。</p><p>5、小孩很清楚自己的想法跟情緒,也很有想辦法的能力。</p><p>很多家長紛紛表示,執行的過程中真的比較花時間,尤其在跟時間賽跑的日常中,很難會沒有「打比較有效」的想法,但是,經過一段時間的堅持,雖然很辛苦,但是在親子互動的過程中,孩子會有很多意想不到的回饋,就像是陪著孩子重新長大一次,過程中的學習與體驗也是非常珍貴的經驗。</p><p></p><p>針對法務部公告民法第1085條修正法案,社團法人台灣親子共學教育促進會、還孩子做自己行動聯盟、勵馨基金會、小民參政歐巴桑聯盟…等團體,邀請兒童醫學專家李佳燕醫師、臺大兒童醫院呂立醫師、勵馨基金會執行長王玥好、親子共學家長廖治雲、fun鬆玩育兒友善園園長李珊、小民參政歐巴桑聯盟執委沈佩玲、立委陳培瑜,也有十幾戶支持修法的家庭在連假期間帶著孩子來到現場,一起在兒童節這天舉辦「放下懲戒,管教不越界--【給孩子一個沒有打罵的童年】」記者會表達支持,除了針對法務部修法表示肯定,並認同法條刪除「懲戒」二字,從嘗試教養父母的心聲、醫師、友善園工作實務上的經驗來看此次修法的重要。</p><p></p><p>長期關注教育並也是親子教養書籍的作者李佳燕醫師,他從案例來說打罵的教養方式是會傳遞給下一代的,而懲戒中的打人與所謂的品格教育的理念是相悖的。孩子是獨立的個體,做為一個人,同樣需要被尊重。懲戒是讓人身體疼痛、心理受創、尊嚴被踐踏,只會讓孩子感到恐懼,並沒有面對孩子真正的問題,孩子還是不懂為什麼不能做這件事,我們也不了解孩子為什麼要做這件事,同時它更會破壞父母和孩子之間的愛。李醫師也分享了自己在童年因為母親的懲罰而有想要自殺的念頭,但他父親對他則是不打罵,願意對孩子講道理和鼓勵,在父親身上可以感受到愛,使他成為了今日的自己。李佳燕醫師認為父母要學習使用文明的方式而不使用讓孩子害怕的方法來教養小孩。</p><p></p><p>親子共學家長廖治雲表示,自己從小經歷了打罵教育,所以從懷孕時期就想改變育兒方式,因為深深體會到打罵所造成的心理影響是最難修補的。然而每當孩子講不聽時,拉扯就出現,印象深刻的是孩子一兩歲時,常把「不要」掛嘴邊的時期,有一次因為趕著出門,就對孩子打了手心,事後自己非常難過與自責。開始共學後,開始去理解和發現自己怎麼了,同樣的也開始這樣去觀察自己的孩子,用好奇心來了解孩子行為背後的原因,而不是用「忍耐」的方法,度過想打小孩的念頭。廖治雲說他相信每個孩子都值得好好被對待,希望政府除了修法,也能提供家長社會支持資源。育兒路上需要夥伴與資源,並且一起成為一股改變的力量。</p><p></p><p>政府與民間共同合作經營的fun鬆玩育兒友善園的園長李珊,其業務主要是協助兒童照顧者與社區民眾共享社區托育資源。在小孩兩歲以前他也曾是會打罵的家長,跟很多家長有一樣的困境,常覺得怎麼都講了100遍了,小孩還聽不懂,就會忍不住怒氣打孩子的小手,希望孩子聽話,但隨孩子年紀越大效果卻變得越差,甚至孩子開始模仿打罵的行為去對待其他小孩,李珊感覺很困擾。參與共學團之後,開始往不打罵的教育練習,後來也開辦育兒友善園,想把自身的經驗與理念傳遞給其他家庭。在經營友善園的期間,有兩個例子令李珊印象深刻:一個是協助常責備孩子的媽媽,一起想辦法理解孩子,找出新方法,媽媽也因此慢慢的做到不打罵的教育;另一個是遇到一位想不打罵孩子的媽媽,卻常被家人潑冷水與指責,媽媽的無助感讓他感覺很沮喪。李珊指出成為父母是需要學習的,多數家長不願意懲戒小孩,但又不知道如何用不打罵的方式來育兒,他期許政府在全台灣各地設置親子館及育兒友善園,除了提供遊戲空間和親子課程之外,擴大陪伴服務的品質,成為陪伴親子及照顧者討論教養困境的資源與支持。</p><p></p><p>四月四日,是屬於兒童權益的特別日子,兒童權利是民主社會進步的指標,要在兒童權利公約的基礎上,來保障孩子們的權益。長期推動兒少權益的勵馨基金會王玥好執行長提出,勵馨從多年家暴、童年創傷的服務經驗中,深刻感受與其投入更多保護服務資源,實則更應從預防做起,設定管教的天花板,能更有效的避免情緒失控下造成的憾事發生。因此近年勵馨的重點放在透過成人教育,來建置友善的環境。從近日懲戒權論戰,發現兒童與父母權益很容易被視為競合關係,主張給兒童多一些的同時,就被解讀成父母某些權力被剝奪;如同20多年前在推動兒童自我保護教育,呼籲尊重兒童身體自主權時,遇到的困境一樣。王執行長最後提到此次修法是將過去「懲戒」的觀點,優化成「權益保障」,是由國家推動家長以正向教養方式培育未來優質公民,也呼籲國家要投注更多資源給有育兒需求的家長,增進教養知能。</p><p></p><p>小民參政歐巴桑聯盟執委沈佩玲則提到俢法不只是國際潮流,而是各種與孩子有關的學門皆顯示修法的必要。並且以過去五年與民法1085條有關的案例,提到目前法條架構不足以對兒童即時的保護,因此讓法條更清晰,使民眾了解如何讓親權的行使,能夠回歸到保護及教養的目的。另外沈佩玲也說認為打罵是「『稍微』的給些教訓」,往往是促成親子相處模式交惡的開始,而修法的目的是為了讓親子關係能往探究問題及理解彼此的方向前進。另外小歐盟認為藉由此次修法也正是檢視政府的家庭政策以及對於父母提供的心理及親職知能的支持是否足夠,呼籲相關各部會整合並編制預算,甚至邀集民間團體資源,協助父母用更多元且正面的方式教育孩子和陪伴孩子。</p><p></p><p>立法委員陳培瑜強調教養孩子要用溫柔而堅定的日常對話,讓孩子理解並內化重要的價值觀和生活事物。她呼籲大人放下自以為是的權威,了解孩子的生活和心情,用這樣的眼光和想法去靠近孩子,以達到教育和管教孩子的目的。她也強調政府應持續協助家長增加親職能力、提供喘息的空間和服務,改善整體社會環境,讓更多人願意生養小孩。她作為立法委員,也盤點了現有相關政策的不足之處,期望透過這樣的討論能夠提供家長更多信心和支持。</p><p></p><p>身為一個小兒科醫師的呂立,六年前在一份論文上看到一句令他非常震撼的話:「兒童,是世界上唯一可以合法毆打的族群」。目前有六十多個國家已經將懲戒權刪除。我們台灣應該也要尊重人的人權,兒童也是人,也需要尊重。他親身見證一個案例,有一位母親原本用打罵的方式管教孩子,效果逐漸變差,甚至互打,媽媽想要改變而提出求助,後來臨床心理師陪伴家長,用合理有效方式管教與溝通,不僅原本造成打罵的成績問題慢慢變好,親子關係也增溫。面談才知道母親從小被打到大,反射式的使用傳統的方式來管教,代代相傳,後來才了解這樣下去對溝通與管教沒有幫助,在她這代終止了打罵教養方式的代間傳遞。孩子需要的是合理管教與正向教養,管教的過程中間,孩子在學習,家長也是在學習,不要再把愛與暴力相連結,讓大家一起學習成長,成為更好的人,營造幸福的生活。</p><p></p><p>呂立醫師影片下載連結網址 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pre-wrap;">文:黃婉茹(台東大腳小腳親子共學團領隊 / 台東暖暖蛇小小蛇陪伴員)</span></p><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="ddi6p-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="ddi6p-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="ddi6p-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="fa7pq-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="fa7pq-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="fa7pq-0-0">這陣子除了學齡前共學團領隊工作,暖蛇(小學共學團)這學期又超展開,每天都好有趣,每天都好紮實的進行著。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="7p95q-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="7p95q-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="7p95q-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="7jhif-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="7jhif-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="7jhif-0-0">加上有了基地,每天都有驚奇的事情發生。像是原本無法會車的道路,昨天村長竟然來幫我們填土,變成有可以停車的空間。步道落葉像是天然的地毯,美死了,老屋還有水有電了…孩子上課跟玩耍都好開心。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="cgj21-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="cgj21-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="cgj21-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="de5s0-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="de5s0-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="de5s0-0-0">就這麼紮實的感受著環境、自己、與孩子的轉變,體會到一點點的不太一樣的差異。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="8il9d-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="8il9d-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="8il9d-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="6kbja-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="6kbja-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="6kbja-0-0">*</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="fkmi8-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="fkmi8-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="fkmi8-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="ddo72-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="ddo72-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="ddo72-0-0">上上個學年,我曾在掙扎一邊當領隊一邊暖蛇的辛苦。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="9umn3-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="9umn3-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="9umn3-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="47jba-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="47jba-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="47jba-0-0">那時候怎麼樣想都是「減法邏輯」,想著把哪邊哪些事減少會好些?</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="bcl4g-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="bcl4g-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="bcl4g-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="97gj2-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="97gj2-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="97gj2-0-0">但實行了一段時間卻隱約感覺到,時間是多了,但沒省力啊。把眼光只看著帶團,焦慮反而更多。(跟帶小孩好像啊~~)</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="2pb84-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="2pb84-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="2pb84-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="bai7-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="bai7-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="bai7-0-0">*</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="75lls-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="75lls-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="75lls-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="32nqq-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="32nqq-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="32nqq-0-0">這學期,兒子即將升上中年級,我們設計了半年的挑戰計畫之餘….</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="afrj1-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="afrj1-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="afrj1-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="44d8d-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="44d8d-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="44d8d-0-0">我決定:我也想挑戰擴充自己在暖蛇現場的學習。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="3kc23-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="3kc23-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="3kc23-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="4o3gs-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="4o3gs-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="4o3gs-0-0">跟兒子討論後——我接了暖蛇的新的工作:</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="n092-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="n092-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="n092-0-0">小小蛇陪伴員+暖蛇預備家庭銜接+主題課備課教學。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="2ll44-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="2ll44-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="2ll44-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="cticp-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="cticp-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="cticp-0-0">#</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="9rrj4-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="9rrj4-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="9rrj4-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="16d2q-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="16d2q-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="16d2q-0-0">「小小蛇」指的就是目前在暖蛇中的孩子們的弟弟妹妹們,他們一路跟著哥哥姐姐在旁玩耍。但有時人手不夠,很難時時刻刻陪伴他們。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="8k3h-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="8k3h-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="8k3h-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="dgq51-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="dgq51-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="dgq51-0-0">所以這學期對陪伴員的定位,不只是托育陪,更像是導師般觀察他們的狀態、陪伴他們繼續「共學」如何社交互動,也為他們即將進入低年級的學習,做一點點鋪陳。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="6ft8b-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="6ft8b-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="6ft8b-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="70rlf-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="70rlf-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="70rlf-0-0">其中,也包含與暖備家庭進入暖蛇的銜接跟自主學習。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="fum0r-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="fum0r-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="fum0r-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="bk9l4-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="bk9l4-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="bk9l4-0-0">這工作剛好銜接了原本共學領隊的專業,也銜接在共學團與暖蛇兩個不同的學習階段,大人與小孩的狀態準備可以怎麼看,帶團方式是不是應該調整?</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="6t7t0-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="6t7t0-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="6t7t0-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="comje-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="comje-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="comje-0-0">結果這剛好又給了原本的領隊工作很多想法與反思。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="9nv62-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="9nv62-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="9nv62-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="evdie-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="evdie-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="evdie-0-0">好像慢慢可以知道,為什麼駿武鼓勵領隊或召集人要去暖蛇教課的原因了。每件事都連了起來,好像不會白費的,來回給予很多刺激跟靈感。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="cat7r-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="cat7r-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="cat7r-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="djhbv-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="djhbv-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="djhbv-0-0">雖然忙,但無形中多了許多新的刺激與自我檢視的機會,反而省力。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="aekkd-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="aekkd-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="aekkd-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="5qgbo-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="5qgbo-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="5qgbo-0-0">#</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="a4m4u-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="a4m4u-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="a4m4u-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="491nt-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="491nt-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="491nt-0-0">在主題課裡面,我負責「跟著暖爸去工作」這系列。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="lkj-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="lkj-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="lkj-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="flq4d-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="flq4d-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="flq4d-0-0">這個課程是課務夥伴小賊的點子,她原本設定希望達成的目標是:</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="ba6u4-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="ba6u4-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="ba6u4-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="98o3t-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="98o3t-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="98o3t-0-0">1. 讓暖蛇爸爸們有機會參與、合作、實作暖蛇的課程</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="53iju-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="53iju-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="53iju-0-0">2. 用教案的方式,讓孩子有機會理解爸爸工作的一天</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="6gksf-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="6gksf-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="6gksf-0-0">3. 拓展視野,認識各行各業</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="3lg1u-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="3lg1u-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="3lg1u-0-0">4. 讓孩子練習提問和紀錄心得</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="2msr4-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="2msr4-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="2msr4-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="4po0o-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="4po0o-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="4po0o-0-0">這些目標幾乎都是我的熱情啊。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="60vqu-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="60vqu-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="60vqu-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="68p4o-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="68p4o-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="68p4o-0-0">它延伸了我想更理解暖蛇/共學爸爸們的想法,跨到可以促成與爸爸們有更多「設計教育上的對話」跟合作。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="6auvc-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="6auvc-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="6auvc-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="g96o-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="g96o-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="g96o-0-0">二來是,我對擴充孩子與各行各業的連結非常有興趣。社會運行看似很正常的各種工作,孩子們的眼裡不知道會看到什麼?</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="3lns2-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="3lns2-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="3lns2-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="33vdc-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="33vdc-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="33vdc-0-0">*</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="517fs-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="517fs-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="517fs-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="2jft2-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="2jft2-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="2jft2-0-0">第一棒是了解獄警工作。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="3th7c-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="3th7c-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="3th7c-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="dtn9v-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="dtn9v-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="dtn9v-0-0">跟老王看過《機智牢房生活》後,就覺得好多有趣的問題可以與孩子們討論。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="711rp-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="711rp-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="711rp-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="8k5du-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="8k5du-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="8k5du-0-0">例如:</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="bdu3o-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="bdu3o-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="bdu3o-0-0">在監獄裡的人為什麼會進監獄?</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="3mi6o-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="3mi6o-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="3mi6o-0-0">怎麼稱呼他們比較合適?</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="attf-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="attf-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="attf-0-0">監獄中關的全都是「壞人」、「罪人」嗎?</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="21rqk-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="21rqk-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="21rqk-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="2hlec-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="2hlec-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="2hlec-0-0">除了認識冤獄、上訴的概念,後來我們也延伸討論到:犯法的人,他犯的「法律」也跟這個國家如何看待罪犯有關。例如在中國因批判政府言論而有罪的人,在台灣則不一定。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="3s8vg-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="3s8vg-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="3s8vg-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="332f2-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="332f2-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="332f2-0-0">最後延伸到,要請中高年級孩子去研究北歐監獄跟台灣的不同。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="jn70-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="jn70-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="jn70-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="1vso4-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="1vso4-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="1vso4-0-0">那天我們也做了一個「老王(爸爸暱稱)的一天」劇場。演戲時,抓住幾個小孩日常就有的疑問「為什麼老王的工作時間這麼長?早上才可以回家?」</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="7jp64-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="7jp64-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="7jp64-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="bu63r-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="bu63r-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="bu63r-0-0">小孩現場看劇,反應好嗨,一路問了爸爸很多問題。一直到回家了,妞妞弟估都還在追問監獄的細節。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="aqpv-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="aqpv-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="aqpv-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="bs16m-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="bs16m-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="bs16m-0-0">「法律」是一個名詞,但內涵其實有很多與國家社會文化結構面呼應的東西,跟孩子們一起了解,真是太有趣了。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="7ogu7-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="7ogu7-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="7ogu7-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="ekcmq-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="ekcmq-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="ekcmq-0-0">備課與教課中,跟小賊學到很多把「抽象概念視覺化」的溝通方式。那個再製訊息的過程,把閱聽人的理解過程做了拆解,我覺得相當細緻、迷人。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="7c8p3-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="7c8p3-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="7c8p3-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="3ko9d-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="3ko9d-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="3ko9d-0-0">這裡又連結到以前做大眾傳播工作的樂趣。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="5ldma-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="5ldma-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="5ldma-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="ec6bh-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="ec6bh-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="ec6bh-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="890cs-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="890cs-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="890cs-0-0">###</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="2nprk-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="2nprk-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="2nprk-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="fapum-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="fapum-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="fapum-0-0">有感:</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="ddg90-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="ddg90-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="ddg90-0-0">一,學習真的可以在不同領域中整合運用啊。「很忙但反而不費力」的過程,好像慢慢體會到了。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="9js4n-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="9js4n-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="9js4n-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="bh3p9-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="bh3p9-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="bh3p9-0-0">二,這群共學的媽媽們一直在用面對專業的心情在進修、在面對孩子與面對社會。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="7vda0-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="7vda0-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="7vda0-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="6bmk1-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="6bmk1-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="6bmk1-0-0">很多人自從知道我帶著孩子自學後,常會形容「我沒工作,目前『就是』跟孩子在一起自學」。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="2pqac-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="2pqac-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="2pqac-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="8bd95-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="8bd95-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="8bd95-0-0">裡面似乎蘊含著….跟孩子在一起不算專業工作、對個人的專業與成就也無法累積,是中斷的?</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="6uuub-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="6uuub-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="6uuub-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="bdna2-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="bdna2-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="bdna2-0-0">人生因理念選擇而做出的生涯轉向,常感受到整個社會把這樣「離開工作」的媽媽,連結到放在「犧牲奉獻」的位子,彷彿「某種樣貌的工作」才是個人成就唯一累積管道。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="d3agg-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="d3agg-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="d3agg-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="pb26-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="pb26-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="pb26-0-0">這是整體台灣社會的共業。從政府給予的托育補助方向來看,下一代可能也會被這樣的價值觀影響。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="7bk7j-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="7bk7j-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="7bk7j-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="94ebg-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="94ebg-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="94ebg-0-0">全職媽媽爸爸的福利與地位,到底要被放在多不專業的位子?</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="dti08-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="dti08-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="dti08-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="5lr0c-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="5lr0c-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="5lr0c-0-0">共學暖蛇這幾年來,所看見的暖蛇共學的媽媽爸爸們,正因為與孩子們朝夕相處、並且平等相待,他們非常了解孩子們的真實需求。那在教育現場,是真真實實的在每一刻都想與孩子接上線、並突破孩子學習的重圍的能力。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="5dd5p-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="5dd5p-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="5dd5p-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="am695-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="am695-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="am695-0-0">沒有教師證照的一群人,卻把每個人的孩子當成自己的孩子在善待,想改革,並一起合作。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="8l39a-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="8l39a-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="8l39a-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="2ak9m-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="2ak9m-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="2ak9m-0-0">這社會怎麼能再說帶孩子不是專業、不是成就、是人生中斷呢?</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="88g0c-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="88g0c-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="88g0c-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="fcbno-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="fcbno-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="fcbno-0-0">斷裂的不是媽媽們,是這個社會看待「人」與「工作」的眼光啊。</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="f6t7r-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="f6t7r-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="f6t7r-0-0"></span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="cq51l-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="cq51l-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="cq51l-0-0">我只是要說:</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="b2mfh-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="b2mfh-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="b2mfh-0-0">我很敬佩你們啊,</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="bcl1h-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="bcl1h-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="bcl1h-0-0">我的夥伴與同事們,</span></div></div><div class="" data-block="true" data-editor="4fi2k" data-offset-key="6ffd6-0-0" style="background-color: white; color: #1c2b33; font-family: -apple-system, "system-ui", "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 14px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="_1mf _1mj" data-offset-key="6ffd6-0-0" style="direction: ltr; position: relative;"><span data-offset-key="6ffd6-0-0"></span></div></div><div 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</p><p></p><p>針對法務部公告民法第1085條修正法案,社團法人台灣親子共學教育促進會、還孩子做自己行動聯盟、勵馨基金會、小民參政歐巴桑聯盟…等團體,邀請兒童醫學專家李佳燕醫師、臺大兒童醫院呂立醫師、勵馨基金會執行長王玥好、親子共學家長廖治雲、fun鬆玩育兒友善園園長李珊、小民參政歐巴桑聯盟執委沈佩玲、立委陳培瑜...等人,一起在兒童節當天舉辦「放下懲戒,管教不越界--【給孩子一個沒有打罵的童年】」記者會表達支持。</p><p></p><p>除了針對法務部修法表示支持,並認同法條刪除「懲戒」二字;</p><p>一直堅持為孩子發聲,長期關注教育並也是親子教養書籍的作者李佳燕醫師,會從第一線的工作經驗,呼籲推廣正面的教養方式對小孩身心健康的重要性。</p><p>長期推動兒少權益的勵馨基金會王玥好執行長,在協助家庭的實務工作上,談修法的必要性。</p><p>親子共學家長廖治雲以家長的親身經驗來談,想在日常中做到不依賴打罵方式的教育,父母會有的心路歷程與困境,在每個想打罵孩子的關頭,怎麼覺察情緒,怎麼從不知所措摸索出溝通的方式,為何自己支持修法?並提出家長需要哪些面向的支持。</p><p>而政府與民間共同合作經營,提升兒童照顧品質的fun鬆玩育兒友善園,協助兒童照顧者與社區民眾共享社區托育資源,其園長李珊亦將分享如何長期協助育兒疲憊透支的父母,談社區支持系統如何陪伴家庭。</p><p>除了修法,政府尚須推動哪些政策及配套來加強親職教育,建構友善親子的社會,小民參政歐巴桑聯盟執委沈佩玲及陳培瑜立委也將提出觀點及訴求。</p><p>台大兒童醫院小兒部兒童醫師,同時也是台大「兒少保護醫療中心」的主任呂立醫師,雖然人在國外開會,但因為非常關心這項修法,因此特別以書面及影片方式出席。</p><p></p><p>台灣親子共學教育促進會也收集兩百個嘗試正面教養父母的心聲將在記者會上呈現,包含:在育兒的生活中執行不打罵教育最困難的是什麼?心得又是什麼?為何想要正面教育,以及為何支持修法?同時也有許多親子家庭會一起到場參加記者會,表達對民法1085條修法的期盼與支持。</p><p></p><p>家庭是孩子健康長大的搖籃,父母是重要的照顧者,以修法為起點,我們期許政府與民間一起協力,協助父母執行正面教養,「給孩子一個沒有打罵的童年」!</p><p></p><h1 style="text-align: left;">放下懲戒,管教不越界 --【給孩子一個沒有打罵的童年】新聞稿</h1><div><div><br /></div><div>針對此次民法1085的修正草案,台灣親子共學教育促進會收集了兩百多位嘗試正面教養父母的心聲,從父母的意見中,我們整理出一些資料。首先是「對於民法1085條的修正草案有何看法?」,父母支持的看法有三大類:</div><div>1、很支持,與時俱進,表示政府在人權與兒童權利上的重視與進步。</div><div>2、修法與否,對大部分家長沒太大差別,但是卻可以保護被嚴重方式對待的兒童,支持修法。</div><div>3、除了修法,更希望政府有足夠的方式支持父母們。</div><div></div><div>再來是,「在執行不罵教孩子的期間,你認為最困難的是什麼?」,我們整理出六大類:</div><div>1、在遇到困境時,還能好好控管情緒很困難!</div><div>2、在育兒日常遇到小孩各式各樣的問題,常常感到沒有方法,會有不知所措的無力感。</div><div>3、想要嘗試不打罵孩子,但是生活周遭常常感受到旁人的眼光,認為不打就等於沒有教,壓力很大。</div><div>4、腦中很容易會浮現的是過往的教養經驗,在情急之下就打了小孩,但又超後悔。</div><div>5、當自己感覺疲憊,又沒有後援時,身心狀態不佳,就想用最快的方式「打」來解決。</div><div>6、需要很花時間,但生活的餘裕有限。</div><div></div><div>從這些資料我們看到,即便是有決心嘗試不打孩子教育的家長,在執行的路上也一樣充滿了各式各樣的困難,期盼有足夠的方式協助家長一起做到,讓家長的無助感得到支持與幫忙。</div><div></div><div>最後,詢問家長「在執行不打罵孩子的心得是什麼?」家長也提出一些面向,最多人都有提到的有幾個點,我們整理如下:</div><div>1、很花時間,但親子關係很緊密。</div><div>2、意外發現,一段時間後小孩變得更能好好說話,溝通能力也比較好。</div><div>3、小孩更有同理心。</div><div>4、發現小孩對很多事情比較願意嘗試,有自信有勇氣。</div><div>5、小孩很清楚自己的想法跟情緒,也很有想辦法的能力。</div><div>很多家長紛紛表示,執行的過程中真的比較花時間,尤其在跟時間賽跑的日常中,很難會沒有「打比較有效」的想法,但是,經過一段時間的堅持,雖然很辛苦,但是在親子互動的過程中,孩子會有很多意想不到的回饋,就像是陪著孩子重新長大一次,過程中的學習與體驗也是非常珍貴的經驗。</div><div></div><div>針對法務部公告民法第1085條修正法案,社團法人台灣親子共學教育促進會、還孩子做自己行動聯盟、勵馨基金會、小民參政歐巴桑聯盟…等團體,邀請兒童醫學專家李佳燕醫師、臺大兒童醫院呂立醫師、勵馨基金會執行長王玥好、親子共學家長廖治雲、fun鬆玩育兒友善園園長李珊、小民參政歐巴桑聯盟執委沈佩玲、立委陳培瑜,也有十幾戶支持修法的家庭在連假期間帶著孩子來到現場,一起在兒童節這天舉辦「放下懲戒,管教不越界--【給孩子一個沒有打罵的童年】」記者會表達支持,除了針對法務部修法表示肯定,並認同法條刪除「懲戒」二字,從嘗試教養父母的心聲、醫師、友善園工作實務上的經驗來看此次修法的重要。</div><div></div><div>長期關注教育並也是親子教養書籍的作者李佳燕醫師,他從案例來說打罵的教養方式是會傳遞給下一代的,而懲戒中的打人與所謂的品格教育的理念是相悖的。孩子是獨立的個體,做為一個人,同樣需要被尊重。懲戒是讓人身體疼痛、心理受創、尊嚴被踐踏,只會讓孩子感到恐懼,並沒有面對孩子真正的問題,孩子還是不懂為什麼不能做這件事,我們也不了解孩子為什麼要做這件事,同時它更會破壞父母和孩子之間的愛。李醫師也分享了自己在童年因為母親的懲罰而有想要自殺的念頭,但他父親對他則是不打罵,願意對孩子講道理和鼓勵,在父親身上可以感受到愛,使他成為了今日的自己。李佳燕醫師認為父母要學習使用文明的方式而不使用讓孩子害怕的方法來教養小孩。</div><div></div><div>親子共學家長廖治雲表示,自己從小經歷了打罵教育,所以從懷孕時期就想改變育兒方式,因為深深體會到打罵所造成的心理影響是最難修補的。然而每當孩子講不聽時,拉扯就出現,印象深刻的是孩子一兩歲時,常把「不要」掛嘴邊的時期,有一次因為趕著出門,就對孩子打了手心,事後自己非常難過與自責。開始共學後,開始去理解和發現自己怎麼了,同樣的也開始這樣去觀察自己的孩子,用好奇心來了解孩子行為背後的原因,而不是用「忍耐」的方法,度過想打小孩的念頭。廖治雲說他相信每個孩子都值得好好被對待,希望政府除了修法,也能提供家長社會支持資源。育兒路上需要夥伴與資源,並且一起成為一股改變的力量。</div><div></div><div>政府與民間共同合作經營的fun鬆玩育兒友善園的園長李珊,其業務主要是協助兒童照顧者與社區民眾共享社區托育資源。在小孩兩歲以前他也曾是會打罵的家長,跟很多家長有一樣的困境,常覺得怎麼都講了100遍了,小孩還聽不懂,就會忍不住怒氣打孩子的小手,希望孩子聽話,但隨孩子年紀越大效果卻變得越差,甚至孩子開始模仿打罵的行為去對待其他小孩,李珊感覺很困擾。參與共學團之後,開始往不打罵的教育練習,後來也開辦育兒友善園,想把自身的經驗與理念傳遞給其他家庭。在經營友善園的期間,有兩個例子令李珊印象深刻:一個是協助常責備孩子的媽媽,一起想辦法理解孩子,找出新方法,媽媽也因此慢慢的做到不打罵的教育;另一個是遇到一位想不打罵孩子的媽媽,卻常被家人潑冷水與指責,媽媽的無助感讓他感覺很沮喪。李珊指出成為父母是需要學習的,多數家長不願意懲戒小孩,但又不知道如何用不打罵的方式來育兒,他期許政府在全台灣各地設置親子館及育兒友善園,除了提供遊戲空間和親子課程之外,擴大陪伴服務的品質,成為陪伴親子及照顧者討論教養困境的資源與支持。</div><div></div><div>四月四日,是屬於兒童權益的特別日子,兒童權利是民主社會進步的指標,要在兒童權利公約的基礎上,來保障孩子們的權益。長期推動兒少權益的勵馨基金會王玥好執行長提出,勵馨從多年家暴、童年創傷的服務經驗中,深刻感受與其投入更多保護服務資源,實則更應從預防做起,設定管教的天花板,能更有效的避免情緒失控下造成的憾事發生。因此近年勵馨的重點放在透過成人教育,來建置友善的環境。從近日懲戒權論戰,發現兒童與父母權益很容易被視為競合關係,主張給兒童多一些的同時,就被解讀成父母某些權力被剝奪;如同20多年前在推動兒童自我保護教育,呼籲尊重兒童身體自主權時,遇到的困境一樣。王執行長最後提到此次修法是將過去「懲戒」的觀點,優化成「權益保障」,是由國家推動家長以正向教養方式培育未來優質公民,也呼籲國家要投注更多資源給有育兒需求的家長,增進教養知能。</div><div></div><div>小民參政歐巴桑聯盟執委沈佩玲則提到俢法不只是國際潮流,而是各種與孩子有關的學門皆顯示修法的必要。並且以過去五年與民法1085條有關的案例,提到目前法條架構不足以對兒童即時的保護,因此讓法條更清晰,使民眾了解如何讓親權的行使,能夠回歸到保護及教養的目的。另外沈佩玲也說認為打罵是「『稍微』的給些教訓」,往往是促成親子相處模式交惡的開始,而修法的目的是為了讓親子關係能往探究問題及理解彼此的方向前進。另外小歐盟認為藉由此次修法也正是檢視政府的家庭政策以及對於父母提供的心理及親職知能的支持是否足夠,呼籲相關各部會整合並編制預算,甚至邀集民間團體資源,協助父母用更多元且正面的方式教育孩子和陪伴孩子。</div><div></div><div>立法委員陳培瑜強調教養孩子要用溫柔而堅定的日常對話,讓孩子理解並內化重要的價值觀和生活事物。她呼籲大人放下自以為是的權威,了解孩子的生活和心情,用這樣的眼光和想法去靠近孩子,以達到教育和管教孩子的目的。她也強調政府應持續協助家長增加親職能力、提供喘息的空間和服務,改善整體社會環境,讓更多人願意生養小孩。她作為立法委員,也盤點了現有相關政策的不足之處,期望透過這樣的討論能夠提供家長更多信心和支持。</div><div></div><div>身為一個小兒科醫師的呂立,六年前在一份論文上看到一句令他非常震撼的話:「兒童,是世界上唯一可以合法毆打的族群」。目前有六十多個國家已經將懲戒權刪除。我們台灣應該也要尊重人的人權,兒童也是人,也需要尊重。他親身見證一個案例,有一位母親原本用打罵的方式管教孩子,效果逐漸變差,甚至互打,媽媽想要改變而提出求助,後來臨床心理師陪伴家長,用合理有效方式管教與溝通,不僅原本造成打罵的成績問題慢慢變好,親子關係也增溫。面談才知道母親從小被打到大,反射式的使用傳統的方式來管教,代代相傳,後來才了解這樣下去對溝通與管教沒有幫助,在她這代終止了打罵教養方式的代間傳遞。孩子需要的是合理管教與正向教養,管教的過程中間,孩子在學習,家長也是在學習,不要再把愛與暴力相連結,讓大家一起學習成長,成為更好的人,營造幸福的生活。</div><div></div><div>呂立醫師影片下載連結網址 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style="--font-size: 35.9999px; --line-height: 1.2; font-family: "YACkoBSOFvI 0", _fb_, auto; line-height: 43px; text-align: start;"><span class="OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none">台灣親子共學教育促進會成立即將邁入第十一年,我們致力促進不打罵不威嚇教育的實踐,落實兒童人權,守護孩子的成長尊嚴。</span></p><p class="cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body" style="--font-size: 35.9999px; --line-height: 1.2; font-family: "YACkoBSOFvI 0", _fb_, auto; line-height: 43px; text-align: start;"></p><p class="cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body" style="--font-size: 35.9999px; --line-height: 1.2; font-family: "YACkoBSOFvI 0", _fb_, auto; line-height: 43px; text-align: start;"><span class="OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none">在這十一年間,我們成立親子共學平台,創造並分享全台親子共學經驗與心得, 提升親職及家庭主要教養者之教育知能,並同時提供心理支持。擴充親子共學內容,舉辦能提升民主素養、尊重人權、關懷他人及保護環境之活動。促成親子共同學習,以期最終達到於家庭內、外實踐之目的。</span></p><p class="cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body" style="--font-size: 35.9999px; --line-height: 1.2; font-family: "YACkoBSOFvI 0", 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text-strikethrough-none">台灣親子共學教育促進會將和全台將近五百戶的親子共學家庭一起,在2023年,繼續實踐不打不罵不威脅不恐嚇不利誘的教育,讓家內民主真正落實。</span></p><p class="cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body" style="--font-size: 35.9999px; --line-height: 1.2; font-family: "YACkoBSOFvI 0", _fb_, auto; line-height: 43px; text-align: start;"></p><p class="cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body" style="--font-size: 35.9999px; --line-height: 1.2; font-family: "YACkoBSOFvI 0", _fb_, auto; line-height: 43px; text-align: start;"><span class="OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none">另外,促進會非常需要您的協助,</span>將親子共學的教育理念介紹給更多朋友。</p><p class="cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body" style="--font-size: 35.9999px; --line-height: 1.2; font-family: "YACkoBSOFvI 0", _fb_, auto; line-height: 43px; text-align: start;"><span class="OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none">您增添的柴火,將照亮兒童人權之路,</span>更有機會引動整體社會的改變,一起用生命影響生命。</p><p class="cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body" style="--font-size: 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class="OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none"><a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SRyc3CoXvyvydfjZB6gQuo7YeeZWgaFO/view?usp=sharing" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: large;">2022年 台灣親子共學教育促進會年報</span></a></span></p><p class="cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body" style="--font-size: 35.9999px; --line-height: 1.2; font-family: "YACkoBSOFvI 0", _fb_, auto; line-height: 43px; text-align: start;"><span class="OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none"><br /></span></p></div><br /><p><br /></p>海星http://www.blogger.com/profile/02003804701762118685noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-80670825180952638762022-12-18T11:08:00.003+08:002022-12-18T11:08:28.611+08:00「與牙醫師親子共學,友善牙醫0距離」親子工作坊圓滿結束<div>文:黃婉茹(大腳小腳台東親子共學團領隊)</div><div><br /></div><b>「與牙醫師親子共學,友善牙醫0距離」</b>的親子工作坊圓滿結束啦!!<br /><br />今年,團中有八位媽媽團員,因帶著幼兒看牙齒的經驗,深切感受到孩子在醫療現場面對醫療的恐懼,我們認知到:孩子除了需要照顧者在家中的陪伴練習,更需要一個願意等待並理解孩子發展的醫療環境。因此,八個媽媽從上半年開始,著手採訪醫師、研究兒童發展與友善醫療,催生出12/3這場工作坊。<div><br />感謝蒞臨參加的夥伴和學員,當天一起交流,為台東孩子們一起創造一個友善的醫療環境<br /><br />兒童牙醫李醫師與我們一起整理出7個陪伴孩子看牙重點,一起點開照片來看看吧!</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgSdRKnaM6jELBVLVc4SUAIMvCF0dOfoD_MBH4UrvvKZvxvcUW85AxKg224X7BB1qouRRtrZko9aBM0L4SjFkBUgdWnCBeI0vzsErhCZIOdfxIZKhyWqLLwRGlqr9oYPaQHKbbdM4Xsip4pLgJ_--UgoLfn1iEsS4qz5smW5ywHWScuok-h7wKxdDe-/s1440/320759609_5819191658144150_4934281448623658814_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1440" data-original-width="1018" height="640" 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pre-wrap;">十二月十一日,網紅酪梨壽司在她個人臉書發文一則,她寫了兩千一百多字,大意是,小孩最近有許多行為讓她被「推入深淵絕境」,她打了小孩,小孩大腿瘀青,社會局社工上門關切,然後她說沒有要合理化暴力行為,「錯了就是錯了,我會反省改進,把這麼難堪的事寫出來,就代表我下了絕不再犯的決心。」</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">有人替體罰的家長緩頰,說「沒經歷過真的不懂怎麼可能會被孩子逼成這樣」、「這樣到底該怎麼教才好」等等。當然,遇到小孩的生活常規跟課堂學習,問題一大堆,是真的很苦惱。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">有人反對體罰,說這樣違反人權、對小孩不好。當然,小孩被打,對小孩不好,對大人也不好,打完消了一點氣,但緊接著就會其他心情冒出來,可說是此消彼長,比打地鼠遊戲還刺激,而且,原本的問題還不見得有處理到。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">有人反對體罰,後頭有人提出資格論,說你沒有生小孩,不知道帶小孩的辛勞云云。這......就轉移話題了,問題是「體罰的作用與副作用」,怎麼會變成「提主張的人有沒有生小孩?」。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">有人主張體罰,說不打不知道怎麼消氣,比如「現在不打不教好。難道要讓別人說是恐龍家長還是小孩沒教養嗎?」、「那有人關心過媽媽的身心嗎?」、「不打就換自己氣到中風」等等說法。這也.......有點轉移話題了,問題是「體罰的作用與副作用」,怎麼會變成「把小孩當沙包家長才能消氣」。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">打或不打,都是因為前面有事發生。就算打了,有速效但效用會持續遞減,而且治標不治本,前面的事情可能只是暫時消失,之後還是可能在其他事情冒出來。打地鼠遊戲再次啟動。就算不打,前面的事情還是在,還是等著看是要怎麼處理。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">輿論比較多討論要或不要「應該」打或不打,以及,「人」(家長或小孩)辛苦或難纏。至於「實際」情況的勾勒,還有這「事」怎麼處理,比較少討論。這種情況,可說是後勢討論熱烈,前因乏人問津。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">我們回頭來看酪梨壽司的波文,她有提到小孩的行為,大致羅列如下:</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">在家裡的部份。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">不寫功課、不洗澡、不睡覺、起床氣、不穿衣服、不起床、不吃早餐、不收玩具。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">在學校的部份。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">進教室慢吞吞、上課不專心(東摸西摸、玩寶可夢卡或橡皮筋)、違反老師規定帶玩具去學校。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">在家裡準備去學校前的部份。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">早上六點到七點,兩兄弟連續一小時「各種胡鬧」、「吵個沒完」,「躲在主臥的窗簾後打鬧」</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">酪梨壽司的處理方式,主要有三種:</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">一、說後果。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">「不想寫功課就早點收書包睡覺,不過明天到學校老師可能會讓你下課繼續寫」後續情況是,小孩哭說「我不想寫我不會寫」、「我才不要下課寫!」</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">二、打。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">小孩「躲在主臥的窗簾後打鬧」那次,大人說「當下我徹底崩潰,各打了兄弟倆幾下屁股(挑大腿肉多不傷及筋骨之處下手)以示懲戒,再請爸爸送去上學。」</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">總的來說,大人處理小孩的生活常規或課堂學習等問題,主要是在行為之上,壓制(打),或是,在行為之後,說後果(說多了會變唐僧)。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">三、猜想行為的由來。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">酪梨壽司跟學校老師討論後,猜想小孩的一些行為問題,原因可能是:國字難、作業考試變多、考試錯誤很多要訂正、不守常規被老師提醒警告造成自尊心受挫。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">關於這個打小孩的討論,行進軸線可能有兩種。第一種,躉繳處理,小孩有狀況若干,大人歷次情緒疊加,最終一次處理,總爆發,就像ㄉㄨㄣˇ繳,買房子,不用每月付房貸,一次繳清,躉繳是也。這是種大戶心態,極有可能常去吃大戶屋。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">第二種,分批處理,一次處理一個小行為,描述行為,猜想行為的由來(跟那個酪梨壽司跟學校老師討論的方向類似)。這樣處理,看似曠日廢時,實則紮實,一次一次都處理到,就不用累積情緒,直到躉繳的那一天到來。。。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">一次針對一個「行為」,先不評價(你XX、你就是YYY、你整天只會AABB)或壓制(打或罵),也不說後果(唐僧模式一啟動,小孩耳朵變大洞),而是描述行為本身,例如「我有注意到,你______(某個現象),是遇到什麼問題嗎?」,如此這番,與小孩開啟對話,如果他不太想講,那有可能是他怕被罵,稍一不慎就慘啦,還是少說為妙,這時,就是親子關係重建的好時機耶。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">接著,針對行為背後的由來(就像酪梨壽司跟學校老師討論的方向),提出一些猜想,如果是小孩覺得「國字難」,那就是學習上的問題了,想辦法偵測小孩是哪邊卡住,哪個環節沒熟練,這麼一來,就進入猜想與嘗試的循環狀態,這就是教學問題,而不是要不要體罰的問題了。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">因為,重點不是要不要體罰,而是,體罰之前,發生了什麼事。那個事情,怎麼面對怎麼處理,的確是很考驗,但是,如果有方法處理到,就不用體罰,不用躉繳,也不用當大戶啦!</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">也許你會問,那有什麼方法?對,往這方向設想就對了。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, ".SFNSText-Regular", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space: pre-wrap;">總之,問題不是要不要體罰,而是發生什麼事?那個事情要怎麼處理?這一步站穩,你就站在體罰的旁邊,多試幾次,就有機會把體罰從處理事情的選項中擠開了。</div><div dir="auto" style="caret-color: 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/></p><p>文、圖:李佳紜(桃園共學團領隊、台灣親子共學教育促進會理事)</p><p></p><p>五歲六個月的宥辰,最近開始迷上將影片內容實作的過程。</p><p>時不時會在要上下車的時候拍拍我說:「妳看!我的手指頭不見了!」我轉過頭去就會看到他很努力地把大拇指藏起來。每一次,不管我的狀態如何,就算很累很想趕快上車,還是會認真的回他:「真的耶!」</p><p>宥辰就會笑笑地把手指頭伸出來說:「其實我只是把它往下折而已啦!就是這樣子啊!是騙人的魔術啦!」</p><p></p><p>最近他看了兩部影片,分別是用叉子在海綿上烙印、用鑰匙在保麗龍上烙印;還有甜點教學的「奶酪棒」</p><p>這兩部影片他都是很堅持要我看,看完之後說:「我也想要試試看!」</p><p>烙印的影片,是在週四我晾完衣服,要出門代班共學之際。宥辰說他現在就想做。我看了看時間,其實有點來不及,但也不是不行,頂多就是改變中餐的計劃。</p><p></p><p>要拒絕孩子很容易,成人總是可以輕易就拿出成千上萬個理由來說服孩子放棄。</p><p>但孩子的好奇與主動嘗試的動力,也會在每次被拒絕的經驗中,一點一滴消逝了。</p><p></p><p>「好啊!」我說「但是我們家現在好像沒有保麗龍,海綿倒是有的。」</p><p>我們一起去三樓廁所拿了一個海綿。宥辰說還要一把鑰匙。</p><p>「但是我只有Imax的車鑰匙耶!我們家都是用遙控器,沒在用鑰匙的。還是⋯⋯」我正想提議的時候,宥辰就說:「那我們就用叉子吧!」</p><p></p><p>最後宥辰試了六次之後,發表了一些心得:</p><p>「每一次要印的時候都要烤過,第二次就只能印出來一點點」</p><p>「印下去的時候會冒出很臭的煙,把鼻說那個煙有毒」</p><p>「咦?所以你有給把鼻看過這個影片哦?」</p><p>「有啊!」</p><p>「你有跟把鼻說你想試試看嗎?」</p><p>「有啊,可是把鼻說那個煙有毒」</p><p>「那把鼻有跟你說有毒會發生什麼事嗎?」</p><p>「沒有餒!可是馬迷我跟妳說一件事,我覺得我們做太久了,要趕快出門了!不然共學的人會等我們等太久!」</p><p>「哦哦哦!對耶!謝謝你提醒我!」</p><p></p><p>開車出門後,宥辰說:「妳還記得我給妳看的那個奶酪棒嗎?」</p><p>「記得啊,我不是還叫你傳給我,我才知道要怎麼做。」</p><p>「我很想要做欸,我們什麼時候才可以做奶酪棒啊?」</p><p>「嗯⋯⋯我想一下哦」我把接下來的行程安排都說了一輪後,問:「我還要先去買吉利丁⋯⋯ 這樣看來,明天下午我應該可以抽時間來做,我跟你約明天下午好嗎?」</p><p>「好哇!」</p><p></p><p>就這樣,到了下午約定的時間,宥辰興奮地一起準備器具、一起攪拌加材料。到了要倒入模具的步驟,他覺得太燙要我來做。</p><p>第一批用了冰棒模具,試了味道覺得可以再加一點糖。第二批追加糖的倒入巧克力模具。放到冷凍庫之後,我按了一小時的計時器,告訴宥辰:「我先上去工作哦,一個小時之後再叫我下來。」</p><p>「一個小時是多久?要看長的針還是短的針?」</p><p>「短的,你看它現在在哪裡?」</p><p>「在五跟六的中間。」</p><p>「好,那等它走到六跟七的中間的時候,你再叫我下來哦!」</p><p></p><p>等到宥辰上樓叫我的時候,計時器正好剩下十分鐘。我們倒出巧克力模具裡的奶酪棒,姊弟倆迫不及待地試吃。</p><p>吃了前面兩三顆,兩人紛紛喊著好好吃。到第四顆的時候,姵希先說:「我覺得沒有很好吃。」</p><p>宥辰吃到最後兩顆時,才說:「我也覺得不太好吃。」</p><p>於是我請他們先冰進冰箱。沒想到晚上竟然大受同住的阿姨好評!不但吃了小顆的,還吃了冰棒模的奶酪棒。</p><p>當阿姨一直說著好好吃的時候,宥辰在旁邊用冷靜並帶點老成的語氣說:「我覺得沒有很好吃。」</p><p>我說:「沒有做之前,我們也不會知道是什麼味道,總是要做了之後才知道嘛。」</p><p>陪伴孩子去嘗試,並且讓他從中得到自己的經驗,自主學習就在生活裡。</p><p></p><p>-----------------------------</p><p>歡迎你一起來,和孩子作伴在生活中學習❤️</p><p>【最新免費講座】</p><p></p><p>✨2022/12/17 - 12/18大腳小腳親子共學全國家庭教育實踐班</p><p>👉詳細簡章及資訊:https://reurl.cc/06ZY6l</p><p>👉報名表:https://forms.gle/VM7CujxEa8bSffAZA</p><p>👉有疑問專員為您服務,聯絡方式請見簡章</p><p></p><p>#親職講座 #免費 #親子 #育兒</p><p>歡迎家中有0~5歲幼兒並有意願參加共學團者、對教養充滿困惑的父母、對於教育議題有興趣進修者報名!</p><p>-----------------------------</p><p>💟關注 #親子共學,一起成為兒權推手 https://lit.link/taoppeit</p>海星http://www.blogger.com/profile/02003804701762118685noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-38020521142292095702022-12-08T14:41:00.005+08:002022-12-08T14:41:33.628+08:00繪本以外更重要的事<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGdSOGNecpJW5AcJY7KtxRWMHXVaAg5ssPmFdzLDjVed29AhJKYTNUYg-ZCTmUr2FKyGbkwW7sgOfhMztLHQ2LvYEyE3LRHSvnsQ5ZAA1x38PsWeWDTRGow94HSMxQl8-_Ec4zd5NYfnobcQ4h19J0leA88dDPjyeEmdqPL6U1IYpLvTmdmQ9LUJbf/s1232/313404138_6375596252455823_3110304257617623247_n.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="816" data-original-width="1232" height="424" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGdSOGNecpJW5AcJY7KtxRWMHXVaAg5ssPmFdzLDjVed29AhJKYTNUYg-ZCTmUr2FKyGbkwW7sgOfhMztLHQ2LvYEyE3LRHSvnsQ5ZAA1x38PsWeWDTRGow94HSMxQl8-_Ec4zd5NYfnobcQ4h19J0leA88dDPjyeEmdqPL6U1IYpLvTmdmQ9LUJbf/w640-h424/313404138_6375596252455823_3110304257617623247_n.jpeg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><br />圖文:郭珈君(台南假日共學團團員)<div><br /> 因為好奇大腳小腳親子共學團帶領繪本方式,加上有參與他們這次繪本選書「朱家故事」的討論,覺得這本書的內容很有趣,因此特別前往參加支援了這次共學繪本團的攝影紀錄。本來以為故事講完就結束....沒想到還有開會...很感謝詩淨有把我留了下來,一起深聊彼此的觀察與想法。<br />這場繪本因為孩子們踴躍發言互動,讓過程進行得非常流暢順利。但其實現場還是有兩個小插曲發生-(細節是討論時我才知道...當時幾乎都忙著拍照)</div><div><br />一、暖蛇孩子在那裡玩耍,發生很大聲的聲響。引起館員注意前來了解,希望大人協助溝通制止孩子行為。<br /><br /></div><div>二、現場參加活動的其中一戶家庭,兄妹之間發生衝突,哥哥情緒上來,生氣、哭泣,媽媽跟孩子提到要把孩子帶離現場。<br /><br /></div><div>主講IVY表示不需要擔心活動進行中孩子任何狀況會影響她,她不介意,夥伴也協助安撫那一戶媽媽及兄妹。<br /><br /></div><div>確實有了孩子之後,才看見、深入思考“大人眼中的秩序”,對孩子狀態的了解認識,是兩條平行線...當自己有了孩子,在陪伴過程中,大大顛覆了我對孩子過去的想像,過了兩歲、兩歲半之後,孩子的基本認知思維已相當接近一般成人,不過,他們的情緒控制,受限於大腦發展以及經驗不足等等原因,沒辦法像大人那樣做快速調節與決策。那麼用大人眼中的秩序強加孩子上時,一部分是孩子狀態不被理解,二是缺乏對他人、團體的觀察思考這個過程所累積的經驗。大人說什麼小孩就要遵行,簡化快速解決問題、排除所有衝突。</div><div><br />從親子共學團角度來說,他們推廣性平議題的繪本以外,最主要也是要為孩子撐出一個空間,一個找回與孩子們表意權的對話空間。正如同,特赦組織當天活動一樣,在屬於孩子的空間,希望她們能夠接觸喜愛這個空間環境,從讓他們沒有壓力、恐懼開始親近,進而了解。</div><div><br />活動過程,對孩子各種狀態的接納,是最基本的。當孩子得以被這個環境所接納,父母也才更有動力勇氣帶領孩子一起與這個環境做對話。這也是共學團夥伴需要共同協力促成這件事情。也是共學團在講繪本時,最想傳遞給家庭的支持力量,繪本講故事只是一個媒介。</div><div><br />這是我在故事結束的討論彼此對話中,咀嚼思考後的筆記。<br /></div><br />黃菲比http://www.blogger.com/profile/12438680360039869003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-3626243974676366572022-11-24T14:39:00.001+08:002022-12-14T00:26:50.031+08:002022/12/17~12/18 大腳小腳親子共學「全國線上」家庭教育實踐班簡章 <p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a 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text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p></p><h3 dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 4pt; margin-top: 16pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #434343; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13.999999999999998pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 700; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">2022/12/17~12/18大腳小腳親子共學「全國線上」家庭教育實踐班簡章</span><span style="background-color: white; color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">迎接孩子成為家庭新成員的那一刻起,教養和教育就是我們避不開的課題。親職在這個社會裡卻漸漸成為束縛的枷鎖。育兒與自我的拉扯,或許讓我們都顯得疲憊不堪。</span><span style="background-color: white; color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 700; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">12月份的全國線上家庭教育實踐班,將突破區域的限制,集全台共學領隊夥伴的投入,一起協助媽媽爸爸:</span></h3><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-8bffeefa-7fff-3678-f255-b77de88d12e5" style="text-align: start;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 6pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">如何從生活中的微妙點滴,去解構那些權力的不平等,實踐理想中平等、親密的親子關係。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 6pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">如何在陪孩子成長的時光中,找回自己面對生活,不畏挑戰的勇氣。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 6pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">有理念澄清討論,有育兒經驗分享,你將能重新看見「和孩子之間」,不再重演緊張的生活劇碼。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 6pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: blue; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">歡迎你,來做全世界最富有的人,做個能陪孩子歡笑與成長的人 !</span></p><br /><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">一、課程說明:</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">大腳小腳親子共學團成立十多年來,已經在台北、宜蘭、桃園、新竹、苗栗、台中、彰化、雲林、嘉義、台南、高雄、台東等地紛紛開團,全台灣目前有超過1200個家庭,為了能夠提供給學齡前(0~5歲)的孩子更多理想的教養環境、與父母們切磋親子教養理念與觀摩練習的機會,每週風雨無阻地大家一起共同學習、共同玩樂與成長。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">二、課程介紹:</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">12/17週六、12/18週日,兩個整天(10:00 ~ 16:00),基本有三堂線上,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">第四堂會依據報名者的區域來確認當地親子共學團可能進行的形式,屆時通知。</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎ 第一堂:12/17(六)10:00~12:00</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">講師:黃婉茹</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">主題:如何「愛」小孩,不是「礙」小孩? -- 看懂教養的阻礙事</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">你/妳是否也曾ㄧ樣在育兒生活中感到孤軍奮戰?來自親朋好友、左鄰右舍、各種專家、路人耳語指導⋯是否感到無所適從?應該怎麼辦?這堂課將與你ㄧ同看懂教養的阻礙,尋找打罵之外的可能,實現盼望的親子關係。</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎ 第二堂:12/17(六)14:00~16:00</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">講師:施婷文 </span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">主題:撥開迷霧,走出自己的教養之路!</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我們的教養方式受到社會與學校的哪些影響?我們要怎麼樣看懂這些影響?又要如何一層一層的剝除過去社會與教育所帶來的束縛?讓我們撥開教養迷霧,踏出一條自主選擇的教養之路。</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎ 第三堂:12/18(日)10:00~12:00</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">講師:吳秋瑾</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">主題:創造新教育 -- 綜合教養座談交流與討論</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">大腳小腳共學團是如何運作的?我們要如何練習與實踐呢?國小階段之後的教養要怎麼調整?這堂課將透過實際案例說明與分享,更清楚看見教育未來的版圖與方向。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> </span></p><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎ 第四堂:12/18(日)14:00~16:00</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">講師:由親子共學團領隊與助教群 一起主持與帶領</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">主題:等待、欣賞、陪伴、協助 -- 在共學中打造我的教養日常</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">共學實踐課,認識什麼是共學。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">有相見歡、親子互動及自由討論時間。</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">上完所有的課程,在互動討論中一起拆解每個人的育兒焦慮,觀察自己、孩子及不同的家庭互動,一起體驗共學的理念與實踐並彼此學習、信任與支持。</span></p><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">三、講師介紹:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">✭ 黃婉茹</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">現任:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">- 社團法人台灣親子共學教育促進會 理事</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">- 大腳小腳親子共學台東區召集人</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">- 大腳小腳親子共學團(台東)領隊</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">三個孩子的媽媽,曾任公關行銷主管,接觸親子共學後,開始練習將民主意識與教養結合。在與家人相互衝突、相互支持、也相互為師的路上,愛上成為父母的自學之路。目前在學齡前親子共學團擔任領隊,在台東暖暖蛇共學團自學,把帶孩子視為自己最喜歡的志業。</span></p><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">✭ 施婷文 </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">現任:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">- 社團法人台灣親子共學教育促進會 監事</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">- 大腳小腳親子共學團(高雄)領隊</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 12pt 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">投身親子共學八年間,陪著許多親子家庭在城市中大小公園走跳、出入各式公共場合,深刻體會兒童在台灣社會是一個「看不見」的存在。期盼透過共學中的各種練習及實作,讓大人對兒童人權有更多的認識及省思,進而落實家庭內的平等與尊重。</span></p><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.3800000000000001; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">✭ 吳秋瑾</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">現任:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">- 親子共學高雄暖暖蛇小學共學團 總召</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">- 大腳小腳親子共學團(高雄)領隊</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">- 高雄市性別公民行動協會 常務理事</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">- 屏東縣學校型態實驗教育審議委員</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">曾經以為任職在外商公司行銷企劃專業工作是自己想要人生道路,十年前接觸共學團理念後人生信念大轉彎,帶著兩個兒子加入共學團後辭去工作,兩年後籌組高雄暖暖蛇小學共學團,實踐非學校實驗教育,更致力於推動兒童人權,打造友善兒少的新台灣社會。我相信:若只想照顧好自己的小孩,這個社會不會變,要一起把力量串連,未來我們才能有平等尊重進步的環境可以期待。</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">四、上課地點:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">線上會議室</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">(會議室連結🔗將在課程前於社團中說明並測試。)</span></p><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">五、收費方式:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">繳保證金1,000元,全勤退費,課程免費!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">(全勤退費是兩天皆線上聽課,事後補課不列入全勤。)</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">☆基於「教育不是商品化」的理念,本課程沒有明訂「價格」。課程支出的所有費用,將於課程時透明公開,若您想支持這個課程,也歡迎一起分攤課程費用,包含講師費、工作人員費用...... 等。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> </span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">六、招收對象:有名額限制(表單開放即可報名)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">(1) 家中有0~5歲幼兒,有意加入全國大腳小腳親子共學團的父母優先。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">(2) 對親子教養進修有興趣的父母。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">(3) 關心教育的社會大眾</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> </span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">七、 報名方式:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="color: red; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">⫸步驟一:課程保證金每戶1,000元,請匯款至以下帳號:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="color: red; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">帳戶名:邱謹鈴</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="color: red; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">銀行代號:809(凱基銀行)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="color: red; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">帳號:0006-25-3129160-1</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">⫸步驟二:手刀線上填寫 報名表</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">報名表連結:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><a href="https://forms.gle/VM7CujxEa8bSffAZA" style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; text-decoration: underline; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">https://forms.gle/VM7CujxEa8bSffAZA</span></a><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> </span></p><br /><br /><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">⫸步驟三:報名資料填寫完成,並收到主辦單位簡訊或臉書私訊回覆後,即為完成報名。</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">⫸特別說明:訊息中我們將邀請報名成功的家庭加入實踐班臉書社團,作為在課程期間一起共學、即時通知課程資訊的平台。收到簡訊後請務必要加入喔!</span></p><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="color: red; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">若仍有疑問請洽: </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: red; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">陳玥妗</span><span style="background-color: white; color: red; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: red; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">電話 : 0982251702</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: red; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">臉書:https://www.facebook.com/yuehchin.chen</span></p><br /><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">八、如何加入親子共學團:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">全勤上課並完成作業後,始可加入共學團。因故缺課者可補聽錄影檔案繳交心得報告。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">平、假日團名額依目前缺額補滿至25戶為止,額滿可排候補。</span></p><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">台灣親子共學教育促進會部落格:</span><a href="https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=http://parentparticipatingeducation.blogspot.tw/?fbclid=IwAR3FPlrBMI1gVNR2YLK0dJFWr9R4zSMEscc0iOdlAAr9uVOyVoIj7oCTt6I&h=AT2xL7n4RMt-SmLSlksGJ-pO8aFIJKEEi2rl6L57dcmsWl00YlPJLnPrKMTodlByedqN3ZZTxZXTMi8O6hd3Qy4JXkPUFiR4X0CMw1fJUPE6GMz6g4a2As5FtE_OSzWpeMS3fM1tDoDOVOX-S1MjJzszYCD3Rslj8mHkLw" style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; text-decoration: underline; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">http://parentparticipatingeducation.blogspot.tw/</span></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">社團法人台灣親子共學教育促進會臉書專頁:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/TaiWanQinZiGongXueJiaoYuCuJinHui?locale=zh_TW" style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; text-decoration: underline; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">https://www.facebook.com/TaiWanQinZiGongXueJiaoYuCuJinHui?locale=zh_TW</span></a><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> </span></p><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">--------------------------------------------------</span></p><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">【親子共學是什麼】</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">親子共學是大人與小孩共同學習的場域。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">小孩天生就很會玩,他們要學習的是怎麼玩得安全?如何跟別人一起玩?被拒絕時怎麼辦?發生衝突時如何回應與處理?</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">大人要學習的是,如何不依靠打罵或威脅恐嚇,用平等尊重的態度與孩子相處?如何觀察、敏感孩子的行為與狀態?如何面對負面教養所帶來的語言及行為問題?如何解讀教育中的價值觀問題等?如果更深入一點,包含面對原生家庭的困難,夫妻、婆媳、親子之間的溝通,如果更廣一點,批判社會中賦予對教育的功利價值與框架,釐清似是而非的教育理念,挑戰威權文化對教育的影響!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">【共學團的特色】</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">以感動替代說教、以鼓勵替代責備、以期許替代要求、以溝通替代懲罰、以合作替代競爭、以欣賞替代挑剔。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這不是一個營利的組織與方式,而是對話與實踐的教育社群。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">它不是一個托育的場所,它是教育上共同參與、反思與實踐的場所。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這不是聯誼社團,是透過行動改變現實環境的學習團體,這是個以平等跟尊重為基礎的親職教育團隊。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">【共學團的組成與運作方式】</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎每團以 25 戶親子家庭為上限(孩子以0-5歲為主)。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎成員:雙親(或之一)與孩子、共學團領隊。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎共學日期:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">(1)平日團每週共學2天,三個月為一期,每個月原則8天。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">(2)假日團每月共學2天(隔週週末為原則),三個月為一期,共6天。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎共學時間:10:00PM~3:00PM </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎領隊津貼:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">平日共學每期三個月、每週兩天(週間),每月 3000元。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">假日共學每期三個月、每月兩天(週末),每期三個月 4000元。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">有特殊經濟狀況的家庭歡迎個別與領隊討論。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">※關於領隊津貼的說明:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我們不願意被定位為一種金錢與商品的交換(服務業與顧客);我們比較希望領隊和共學親子家庭彼此是合作夥伴的關係,而付費是用來支持領隊可以提供理想中的教育理念與方式。</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎父母必須全程陪伴與觀察孩子的活動,成人彼此互助負責孩子的安全與照顧,而領隊做為一個從旁協助的角色,在父母面臨親子互動或教養上的困難時,提供支持與思索問題的參考,幫助父母在教養上更有信心、自主。</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎除了願意揚棄打罵與威脅恐嚇以外,更要練習平等尊重、溫柔待人的方式,協助孩子成為一個有自信與自主能力的人,而不是會壓抑自我、順從教條的人。所以加入共學團前,請先想清楚,你希望孩子成為什麼樣子的人?</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎成人教育與互動遠比孩子複雜,共學團的父母們在這裡也練習如何結交朋友,如何主動溝通、提出想法、參與團隊,並一同嘗試思辨過去的價值觀與教養方法,彼此嘗試敞開心胸互相協助,形成有效的支援網絡,讓彼此在親子教養與個人成長的路上更有力量。</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎共學場地:主要選擇戶外空間,盡量在車程一小時以內,自然、安全、免費(或低收費),適合孩童遊戲、對兒童友善,參加者自行前往。若共學地點無大眾運輸供搭乘前往,也無交通工具(汽機車),可以跟其他家庭協調共乘。</span></p><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: 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normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">一、課程說明:</span></h3><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">大腳小腳親子共學團十年來,在台北、桃園、宜蘭、新竹、苗栗、台中、彰化、台東、雲林嘉義、台南、高雄等地紛紛開團,全國目前約有超過1,200個家庭,每週風雨無阻的共學,期望可以提供給學齡前(0~5歲)的孩子,更多貼近自然,親近在地文化的教育環境,給父母們交流理念,切磋學習,陪孩子一起找回童年,勇敢學習與挑戰的機會。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">迎接孩子成為家庭新成員的那一刻起,教養和教育就是我們避不開的課題。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">社會對親職的過高期待,與對親職實現的承接的包容與接納還存在巨大的落差。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">親職在生活中卻漸漸成為束縛的枷鎖。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 6pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">育兒與自我的拉扯,或許讓在這座快速發展的島嶼上居住的我們疲憊不堪。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">親子共學將協助你如何從生活中的微妙點滴去解構那些權力的不平等,實現理想中平等,親密的親子關係。如何在陪孩子成長的時光中,找回自己面對生活,不畏挑戰的勇氣。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 6pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">有理念澄清討論,有育兒經驗分享,你將能重新看見「和孩子之間」,不再重演緊張的生活劇碼。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 6pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">歡迎你,來做全世界最富有的人,做個能陪孩子歡笑與成長的人!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 6pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 6pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">二、課程介紹:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">☆☆因應防疫需求特別說明☆☆</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">依據指揮中心最新宣布之防疫指引與原則,評估活動空間環境特性與防疫需求,並基於</span><span style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">防疫工作人人有責,確實自主落實防疫措施,維持個人衛生好習慣,戴口罩、勤洗手、保持社交距離,保護自己也保護他人。</span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">★12/17週六、12/18週日,兩個整天【10:00~16:00】,共四堂實體課程。</span></p><p><b id="docs-internal-guid-959e7021-7fff-7cb0-a05b-949d10679935" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: black; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px;"><br /></b></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎ 第一堂:12/17(六)10:00~12:00</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">講師:邱瓊儀</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">主題:如何「愛」小孩,不是「礙」小孩? -- 看懂教養的阻礙事</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">育兒生活中,你/妳是否也曾感到孤軍奮戰?來自親朋好友、左鄰右舍、各種專家、路人耳語指導⋯是否感到無所適從?為什麼會這樣?應該怎麼辦?這堂課將與你ㄧ同看懂教養的阻礙,尋找打罵之外的可能,實現盼望的親子關係。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎ 第二堂:12/17(六)14:00~16:00</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">講師:羅青真</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">主題:撥開迷霧,走出自己的教養之路!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我們的教養方式受到社會與學校的哪些影響?我們要怎麼樣看懂這些影響?又要如何一層一層的剝除過去社會與教育所帶來的束縛?讓我們撥開教養迷霧,踏出一條自主選擇的教養之路。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎ 第三堂:12/18(日)10:00~12:00</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">講師:由台南親子共學團領隊與助教群 主持與帶領。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">主題:等待、欣賞、陪伴、協助 -- 在共學中打造我的教養日常</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; white-space: pre-wrap;">共學實踐課,請帶孩子一起來試共學。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">有相見歡、親子互動及自由討論時間。上完第一天的課程,在互動討論中一起拆解每個人的</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">育兒焦慮,觀察自己、孩子及不同的家庭互動,一起體驗共學的理念與實踐,並彼此學習、信任與支持。</span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎ 第四堂:12/18(日)14:00~16:00</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">講師:陳冠娟</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">主題:創造新教育 -- 綜合教養座談交流與討論</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">聽了前面的課程,你經驗與思索了什麼?馬上想開始實踐,遇到什麼樣的問題?幼兒共學之後,國小階段怎麼辦?我們和妳/你一起細細聊,和孩子共學迎向未來社會的能力。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">三、上課地點:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">■ </span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 700; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">台南市活動中心(地點:台南舊市區)</span></p><p><b style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: black; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px;"><br /></b></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">四、收費方式:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">繳保證金1,000元,全勤退費,課程免費!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">全勤退費是兩天課程全程參與,事後補課不列入全勤。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #262626; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">☆基於「教育不是商品化」的理念,本課程沒有明訂「價格」,課程支出的所有費用,將於課程時透明公開,請依個人學習經驗與使用者付費原則,歡迎樂捐支持我們持續舉辦課程!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">五、招收對象:限50戶家庭(額滿截止)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">(1) 家中有0~5歲幼兒,有意加入全國大腳小腳親子共學團的父母優先。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">(2) 對親子教養進修有興趣的父母。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">(3) 關心教育的社會大眾 </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">五、 報名方式:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">⫸步驟一:課程保證金每戶1000元,請先匯款至以下帳號:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">帳戶名:邱瓊儀</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">樂天銀行(826)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">帳號:0081201000902146</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">⫸步驟二:手刀線上填寫 報名表</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">報名表連結:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><a href="https://forms.gle/rpVTXN2uYGt1Cxq27" style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="background-color: #fcff01; color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; text-decoration: underline; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">https://forms.gle/rpVTXN2uYGt1Cxq27</span></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">⫸步驟三:報名資料填寫完成煩請直接加聯絡人</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/595554663809806/user/100009412476739/?__cft__[0]=AZU5sdpMY8dwpf9ebwgNFPFuvEFtmshj-k0NGiL1XP53letpCiImi9g34QsqY7zdOuAIs5MD0EmjLK0q65Kc_ujuVMb_m1MgV8t-mLJFX3iMsYDSP0MGPAOuSeJzSHc-IJtqOk3Nz92A-WefZRkOALJAJnBH1nfQbqoJuKZ3DnCUykpmlfJzJ1sBCblAaav8eNU&__tn__=-]C%2CP-R" style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial; font-size: 13pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 700; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; text-decoration: underline; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Chiung Yi Chiu 臉書</span></a><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">好友,並傳訊「欲報名12/17-18實踐班,已填表及匯款」。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">⫸步驟四:待工作人員確認已匯款,會邀請加入臉書私密社團「2022/12/17-18大腳小腳台南親子共學家庭教育實踐班」。(若遲未接獲連繫,煩請主動與聯絡人接洽!)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">⫸</span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 700; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">特別說明:加入實踐班臉書社團,是作為在課程期間一起共學、即時通知課程資訊的平台,所以加入社團後,才算完成報名唷!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">若仍有疑問請洽:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Ivy Chiu</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">電話 : 0986-919-977</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">七、如何加入親子共學團:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">全勤上課並完成作業後,始可加入共學團。因故缺課者可補聽錄影檔案繳交心得報告。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">平、假日團名額依目前缺額補滿至25戶為止,額滿可排候補。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">======================</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">【親子共學是什麼?】</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><a href="https://draft.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/6232205442887774177/6352537356142212490#" style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; text-decoration: underline; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">台灣親子共學教育促進會部落格</span></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><a href="https://draft.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/6232205442887774177/6352537356142212490#" style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; text-decoration: underline; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">社團法人台灣親子共學教育促進會臉書專頁</span></a><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">親子共學是大人與小孩共同學習的場域。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">小孩天生就很會玩,他們要學習的是怎麼玩得安全?如何跟別人一起玩?被拒絕時怎麼辦?發生衝突時如何回應與處理?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">大人要學習的是,如何不依靠打罵或威脅恐嚇,用平等尊重的態度與孩子相處?如何觀察、敏感孩子的行為與狀態?如何面對負面教養所帶來的語言及行為問題?如何解讀教育中的價值觀問題等?如果更深入一點,包含面對原生家庭的困難,夫妻、婆媳、親子之間的溝通,如果更廣一點,批判社會中賦予對教育的功利價值與框架,釐清似是而非的教育理念,挑戰威權文化對教育的影響!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">【共學團的特色】</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">以感動替代說教、以鼓勵替代責備、以期許替代要求、以溝通替代懲罰、以合作替代競爭、以欣賞替代挑剔。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這不是一個營利的組織與方式,而是對話與實踐的教育社群。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">它不是一個托育的場所,它是教育上共同參與、反思與實踐的場所。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這不是聯誼社團,是透過行動改變現實環境的學習團體,這是個以平等跟尊重為基礎的親職教育團隊。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">【共學團的組成與運作方式】</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎每團以 25 戶親子家庭為上限(孩子以0-5歲為主)。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎成員:雙親(或之一)與孩子、共學團領隊。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎共學日期:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">(1)平日團每週共學2天,三個月為一期,每個月原則8天。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">(2)假日團每月共學2天(隔週週末為原則),三個月為一期,共6天。</span></p><p><b style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: black; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px;"><br /></b></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎共學時間:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">每次共 5 小時。例如:AM11:00~PM4:00。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">★ 各區各團實際共學時間會依據每一團狀況而有不同,也會因為冬夏季節而有調整★</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">★ 以各團領隊公告為主★</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎領隊津貼:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">平日共學每期三個月、每週兩天(週間),每月 3000元。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">假日共學每期三個月、每月兩天(週末),每期三個月 4000元。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">有特殊經濟狀況的家庭歡迎個別與領隊討論。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">※關於領隊津貼的說明:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我們不願意被定位為一種金錢與商品的交換(服務業與顧客);我們比較希望領隊和共學親子家庭</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">彼此是合作夥伴的關係,而付費是用來支持領隊可以提供理想中的教育理念與方式。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎父母必須全程陪伴與觀察孩子的活動,成人彼此互助負責孩子的安全與照顧,而領隊做為一個從旁協助的角色,在父母面臨親子互動或教養上的困難時,提供支持與思索問題的參考,幫助父母在教養上更有信心、自主。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎除了願意揚棄打罵與威脅恐嚇以外,更要練習平等尊重、溫柔待人的方式,協助孩子成為一個有自信與自主能力的人,而不是會壓抑自我、順從教條的人。所以加入共學團前,請先想清楚,你希望孩子成為什麼樣子的人?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎成人教育與互動遠比孩子複雜,共學團的父母們在這裡也練習如何結交朋友,如何主動溝通、提出想法、參與團隊,並一同嘗試思辨過去的價值觀與教養方法,彼此嘗試敞開心胸互相協助,形成有效的支援網絡,讓彼此在親子教養與個人成長的路上更有力量。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">◎共學場地:主要選擇戶外空間,盡量在車程一小時以內,自然、安全、免費(或低收費),適合孩童遊戲、對兒童友善,參加者自行前往。若共學地點無大眾運輸供搭乘前往,也無交通工具(汽機車),可以跟其他家庭協調共乘。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">======================</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">【定期定額捐,我們需要你】</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 12pt; margin-top: 12pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">親子共學促進會仍有許多理念正在努力實踐,邀請您定期定額捐款,與我們一起成為兒童人權的長期推手!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">定期定額捐款送擁抱愛食物袋</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.656; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; text-decoration: underline; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><a href="https://draft.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/6232205442887774177/6352537356142212490#" style="text-decoration: none;">https://reurl.cc/0DlQMA</a></span></p>海星http://www.blogger.com/profile/02003804701762118685noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-76285525726992521522022-10-30T14:09:00.003+08:002022-10-30T14:09:12.592+08:00【身為母親,你快樂嗎?】<p> </p><span id="docs-internal-guid-964a49db-7fff-98d3-539f-3362e0665c60"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiuLXIKPLSMd4RY0u3LPiWQpAfuwCW691K3JisNb5R1HxI-7LgFK0QNBAeyB75K6-_tVvP6Z1AYesU7It3vttbztSsiIvX3Sb7K4uXpZWPd8h_dQNO5dwg_6Gu33OuWPyujy660yTQJHvIbjQ50zdIHLYrKKkswHu4fJv0WMzAvOQFWbHcAQNAipU5I3g/s2048/%E3%80%90%E8%BA%AB%E7%82%BA%E6%AF%8D%E8%A6%AA%EF%BC%8C%E4%BD%A0%E5%BF%AB%E6%A8%82%E5%97%8E%EF%BC%9F%E3%80%91.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" height="295" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiuLXIKPLSMd4RY0u3LPiWQpAfuwCW691K3JisNb5R1HxI-7LgFK0QNBAeyB75K6-_tVvP6Z1AYesU7It3vttbztSsiIvX3Sb7K4uXpZWPd8h_dQNO5dwg_6Gu33OuWPyujy660yTQJHvIbjQ50zdIHLYrKKkswHu4fJv0WMzAvOQFWbHcAQNAipU5I3g/w394-h295/%E3%80%90%E8%BA%AB%E7%82%BA%E6%AF%8D%E8%A6%AA%EF%BC%8C%E4%BD%A0%E5%BF%AB%E6%A8%82%E5%97%8E%EF%BC%9F%E3%80%91.jpg" width="394" /></a></div><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">文、圖:沈玉玲(高雄暖暖蛇共學團召集人)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">選在母親節晚上看了82年生的金智英。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">各種記憶在腦海中咻咻咻地閃過去:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">生產完從月子中心回到娘家最害怕的是晚上睡覺要跟寶寶共處一室,因為我不知道他在哭什麼,要怎麼哄他。我以為當媽媽是女人的天性,所以不敢對別人說同時也自責著我怎麼能害怕他。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">在小孩每每半夜醒來要哄上半天才能睡著的時候,我一邊想到底是哪路鬼神在逗弄他,想著想著又害怕自己會看到什麼可怕的東西。終於有一天,半夜在他的哭聲中,我不耐煩的把他丟在床上,崩潰的邊哭邊問他哭夠了沒。另一半被吵醒丟來的一句「妳幹嘛那麼兇!」,讓我的不滿不爽跟委屈直接衝上頂點。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">在育嬰假後的復職,無力的發現自己沒辦法做到像以前一樣心無旁騖的工(加)作(班),每天忙著運送小孩去托嬰又運送小孩回家,直到某天邊打瞌睡邊騎摩托車差點撞上安全島,才突然驚醒我的生活是一團亂的惡夢。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">而原來,雜誌上的女藝人,一手拎著名牌包一手抱著嬰兒的照片,是這個社會粉飾太平的假象。讓人天真的以為,育兒不過就是那麼輕鬆一手就能搞定的事情。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">所有來自認識或是不認識的,都能對你指點一番何謂好媽媽,你的小孩太瘦,你的小孩不夠有禮貌,你的小孩穿太少…,看似關心的口吻背後都在指責著,你是怎麼當人家的媽媽的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">怎麼當人家的媽媽的?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">是用我的生命拼博著將他帶到這個世界啊!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">是在其他人看不慣他的時候,告訴他別人說的不一定是有道理的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">是在公共空間裡一次又一次讓他人理解小孩沒辦法像個機器娃娃,按個按鈕就能安靜。(結果意外練就跟陌生人吵架的能力)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">是帶著他走上另一條實驗教育的路,看見真正的教育是要讓人更理解自己與世界。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">是在陪伴他長大的過程中,看見我是如何被馴服在各種規範下,於是用力的跟自己拉扯與打架,因為我想撐出讓他的羽翼能夠不被折損的空間。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">今天早上小孩醒來,第一件事是抱著我問,今天是母親節嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我閉著眼睛說,對啊!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">他說,母親節快樂,媽咪我超級愛妳。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我跟他說,嗯,當媽媽真的還蠻快樂的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: 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font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">文、圖:黃婉茹 (大腳小腳台東親子共學團領隊)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">#洛韶3y</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">洛韶說:「我討厭妞妞弟估他們最近對我講話很兇。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">一直以來備受哥姐疼愛的洛,為什麼最近常跟姐哥吵架?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我訪問了妞妞弟估。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">妞妞說:「我討厭洛韶每次我叫他不要幹嘛他就偏要!跟他說他還會生氣。生氣就來打我!」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">弟估說:「我討厭洛韶一直說『看吧我最厲害吧』為什麼要最,我們又沒在比賽,而且明明只是一件很普通的事!一點都不厲害!」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">聽完他們輪流控訴,我腦中想到好多最近對三歲小孩的研究。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我說:「欸我有個猜測,你們聽聽看喔。你們知道洛韶現在是幾歲嗎?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">他們說:「三歲多」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我說:「三歲小孩正在自我意識萌芽的階段喔。這是說,這個階段他會想要確認:我是誰?我喜歡什麼?我真的可以自己決定一件事嗎?我會什麼?他開始在練習自主決定,他也會從別人的給他的反應,來認識自己喔!」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">弟估:「所以是不是他什麼都想自己用,像他就想要自己尿尿、不要包尿布。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我:「對,他做完一件新的事,可能就會覺得自己『最厲害』,但他不是要比賽,他就是想告訴自己,覺得自己真的真的很厲害,克服了一件新的事。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">弟估:「但他還是會到處亂尿尿啊,明明就很不會,上次還尿在你桌上還有玩具裡面!」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我:「三歲的他生活經驗還沒有你們豐富,上廁所也還在練習,所以他沒辦法立刻就什麼都會了,沒辦法很快的判斷怎麼樣做比較好。所以我們突然很兇叫他不要,他來不及思考為什麼,就會呆住,會有情緒,會哭、或是打人。但是不是這樣有時候讓你們覺得很無理?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">妞妞說:「對!」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我:「我上次看到書上還寫到,三歲小孩還有一個很特別的地方,他很焦慮不安的時候,有時候會不讓聊天的媽媽說話,因為他要確定媽媽有看到他、知道他現在好緊張。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">妞:「我也會這樣哈哈哈~~。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我:「對啦,其實你們也都三歲過啊!你們應該比我記得更多三歲的事吧!」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">弟估:「我記得那個影片,我三歲的時候,會一直說自己打了好球,可是明明就打很歪哈哈哈哈哈哈~~。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">他們好像開始同理洛韶了嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我說:「洛韶,你是不是有覺得以前對你好溫柔的妞妞弟估,三歲以後常常對你很兇、很不耐煩?你很不習慣嗎?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">洛韶哭臉,點頭。眉頭深鎖。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">妞妞說:「洛韶,好啦!姊姊還是很愛你!可是你有時候真的是不要這麼堅持,不然我真的會沒有耐性就會好想打你….。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">完全顯示出八歲所能做出的和好警示大概就是這樣。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">弟估:「我還是討厭洛韶。還好他快四歲了。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">四歲有比較容易嗎?⋯⋯</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">生到第三個小孩,發現這是第一次對三歲孩子有這麼積極的研究。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">夥伴雪妮問我為什麼?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">確實因領隊職務有讀了更多理論,但另一個原因是,共學團裡面剛好有四個三歲孩子啊!每次跟他們相處,都不斷在驗證書中所看到的理論。也因為這樣,多了很多了解他們的線索。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我們默默形成了一個互助支持圈,慢慢陪這群三歲孩子,建立起彼此的社交關係。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; 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1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="492" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3D62cRbde1dvT6yG25S1DV2q1JyGjqEVy9B0dXMGhezV-J0p48reOvDqfDYIcPwSXEmAlTc7LJ4SEP5ssmDD5SzAuYmOpm3FA-hEL1iH_eU9O04_pQjnM1Xn8GuI6dM0bFOX8J37e_WNKBiBESojUHT7Mdjt_i0xmULKhT0u8Wrz4x0e-V6ohRUHH3w/w492-h492/%E7%B7%A8%E8%99%9F43.png" width="492" /></a></div><br /><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span><p></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; white-space: pre-wrap;">文、圖:許堯鈞 (大腳小腳台東親子共學團)</span></p><span id="docs-internal-guid-9f8cd886-7fff-38a1-ed16-2d8db3b734d5"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">今天老婆妮妮有工作,我在家裡顧著兩個小孩,知道弟弟芋頭包(9m)想睡了,所以用背巾抱著他走走,然後他就在「啊~啊~啊~」的聲音中睡著了(這個好像是弟弟芋頭包睡覺前特有的方式)。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">在照顧兩個小孩時,真的沒有辦法兩全其美,3歲多的大寶看著卡通「飆速」,這部卡通說真的,我還蠻喜歡的,卡通中會有一些橋段讓小孩思考或者做決定,例如:看看數字哪個大、重量多重、拋物線等,而其實我很喜歡陪著阿包看電視,因為我會知道他記得些什麼,或著想跟我分享什麼,也會把他看到的卡通融入在生活中。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">經過1個小時,看卡通時間也差不多,我希望阿包自己先去玩玩具,但是⋯說時遲那時快⋯芋頭包大魔王醒來了XD,因為今天要共學,所以我想說,先把中餐處理起來,這樣妮妮回來時就不用再準備,可以縮短出門共學前的準備時間。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">為了煮飯,我把弟弟放在餐椅上(我們夫妻倆都說芋頭包是「椅子弟」,因為有蠻長一段時間他都自己坐在椅子上玩玩具或著看著我們,三不五時唉唉叫一下,甚至對我們放電出可愛的笑容)。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">阿包在玩玩具時,我也跟阿包說,今天我們家的民宿有客人唷,住在金針兔房,所以爸爸等等載你們去共學後,要回來打掃房間,這時阿包一直重複一句話「著機械」「著季線」,其實我聽不太懂他在說什麼?加上抽油煙機的聲音有點大。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">胖:蛤?阿包你說什麼?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">包:著季線、住機線。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">胖:喔~他們住金針兔,有一個11個月的小孩。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">包:(加重語氣!!)著季線啦~</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">胖:蛤?你說什麼?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這時他開始掉眼淚了⋯(哇噻是怎麼樣!表演三秒鐘掉眼淚給我看~參加比賽一定得獎XD)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我放下鏟子、鍋子快走到他身邊蹲下⋯</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">胖:阿包,你可以再跟爸爸說一次嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">包:這時他已經淚流滿面⋯啜泣說著住幾線⋯</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">胖:著幾線⋯著機械⋯啊⋯你是說住幾天嗎? 他們住一天而已。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">包:哭著沒有說話。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">胖:阿包,你哭哭是因為爸爸聽不懂你說的話嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">包:嗯。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">胖:爸爸以後會再仔細聽你說話,你是說住幾天對吧?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">包:嗯嗯。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">胖:爸爸可以抱抱你嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">包:嗯嗯。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">胖:對不起,爸爸真的很努力聽,但是還是聽不太出來,但是你以後可以再多說幾次嗎?爸爸會努力聽著。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">然後我抱著他走走,親他的胖臉頰。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">突然想到~啊~我的豆乾佐洋蔥中式醬汁,還在鍋子跳舞勒~</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">胖:阿包,爸爸的料理要變成木炭了,你可以跟我一起拯救它嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">包:為什麼它要變成木炭了?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">胖:因為我照顧你,然後我就忘記了,我們一起來看一下,哇~幸好沒事!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">包:不要啦~我要它變成木炭~</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">胖:我才不要勒~我又不是吃木炭的爸爸豬。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">包:哈哈~</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">阿包笑的很開心,彷彿世界一切都很美好,幸好弟弟也很配合,自己坐在餐椅上,玩著他的手,看起來有睡飽有差,不過他老爸我的腰快斷了~10公斤的芋頭包揹著睡覺1小時不是蓋的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">阿包有時候講話,在咬字上還是有些那麼不清楚,需要我們猜測或者多花點時間跟他核對。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我能理解他的想法,因為阿包是屬於失落會放在心中不說出來,有時候還會強忍淚水,甚至自己去轉移注意力,而二寶出生後,我們夫妻有時候也會因為要照顧二寶,而忘記了大寶需要陪伴的需求,他對我的依賴感甚至比對妮妮還多,因為他知道媽媽要照顧芋頭包,而我也在去年疫情時,跟他產生了革命情感。他反而比較黏我,會希望我陪在他身邊。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: 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pre-wrap;">https://lit.link/taoppeit</span></a></p><div><br /></div></span>evahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02535725967517112050noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-23629362100986999422022-10-30T14:01:00.000+08:002022-10-30T14:01:00.044+08:00【孩子是孩子,我是我--課題分離的練習】<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGa-i4O90xLDVcT0yj-c8X09P0cWebYdf557PDdRXsZSzI2amVOR20bjeLnqu1-pbK0D8GF_sTqsdUFyuSh2zfAkjdsgzfYlQPiQkub8pGcH-ScbelrUcyC2JdVDIV1yFOsPQECV0c08r6xJ7-JO1gx9y-A2SEW5UTECnPn81kXYdYovVmZUoB2ri3dQ/s1080/%E7%B7%A8%E8%99%9F42.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="447" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGa-i4O90xLDVcT0yj-c8X09P0cWebYdf557PDdRXsZSzI2amVOR20bjeLnqu1-pbK0D8GF_sTqsdUFyuSh2zfAkjdsgzfYlQPiQkub8pGcH-ScbelrUcyC2JdVDIV1yFOsPQECV0c08r6xJ7-JO1gx9y-A2SEW5UTECnPn81kXYdYovVmZUoB2ri3dQ/w447-h447/%E7%B7%A8%E8%99%9F42.png" width="447" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap; white-space: pre;">文、圖:陳虹汝(大腳小腳台東親子共學團) </span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-878ae16e-7fff-73b0-fec4-1d96297090e7"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">昨天共學再度與領隊討論3歲阿樂的社交現況。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">繼上次在卑南文化公園,阿樂久違的和同為3歲的朋友洛、柚子玩了好一陣子,本以為他好不容易融入或願意和同年齡的這幾位孩子有更多的互動,這幾天在家,他卻跟我說: 「我的朋友只有(一歲八個月的)恩仔」。 </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">今天早上要出門前,他更是在聽到我跟妹妹說: 「出門囉,去找寶寶朋友們吧!」的時候,激動的表示,「恩仔只能和我做朋友。其他人不行!」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">今年七月即將滿四歲的阿樂,一直都是個蠻敏感、需要先觀察再行動的孩子。 他不是膽小,只是需要比他人更多的時間把自己身心準備好再動作。 社交上,遇到比自己強勢的同齡孩子,通常會比較退縮,並且以迂迴拒絕、轉移注意的方式應對。 </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">以往我自己會很焦急,並常常不自覺地把自己童年經驗投射在他身上。我自己小時候這部分也跟阿樂很像,微高敏並不知如何與強勢的孩子共處。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">後來也是和領隊聊了這個部分之後,才驚覺,自己表面上「不欣賞」阿樂的這方面特質的深層,其實包含了期許能翻轉童年自我經驗的渴望。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">領隊跟我整理出阿樂近期的社交脈絡,回想起目前在台東暖蛇自學團中的一個高年級孩子A,小時候似乎也有過一陣子類似目前阿樂的狀況- 比較敏感、儘管喜歡和朋友相處,但遇到委屈自己的時候,當下不一定有勇氣拒絕或說出自己的真實想法。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">A是一直到小學二年級左右這個年紀,自己突然長出足夠的勇氣,和朋友之間的相處不再像以往那般什麼都好,都配合。 漸漸地敢大聲為自己站出來了! 然而,這樣的改變並不是朝夕就可見到。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">在漫漫過程中,身為媽媽的我,可以從旁協助的,第一是讓阿樂有足夠的安全感,讓他清楚知道,儘管在社交上目前有些部分有待突破,但媽媽會陪著我,受到挫折了,需要安慰的時候,媽媽會在我身邊。 回到家之後,也可以找機會用角色扮演、指偶等的方式,讓白天的情境重現,讓阿樂把自己內心真正想說的話,在遊戲中釋放出來,這樣的情緒流動,有助於他在一次次的累績受挫後,仍有個出口發洩心中壓力。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">而第二,身為父母,我們也可以協助阿樂示範如何與同儕交涉。 如何開口借玩具,如何在被拒絕後自處,如何捍衛自己的界限等等。當他看著我們的表現出來的態度、使用的措辭言語,相信他會慢慢的納入並長出自己的樣子。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">也就是說,儘管急不得,但這段期間,我能做的是,藉由客觀的觀察孩子,了解他的特質以及目前的社交困境,找出引導、協助他的方式,並靜待他自己累績足夠能量後改變的時候。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">整理完這些之後,我頓時釋懷了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">畢竟阿樂是阿樂,我是我。 我不想要把自我的好惡或童年的經驗強套在他身上。 看清了這點,整個人都鬆了。沒有了主觀的評判,我比較可以用客觀的角度來從旁觀察他每一次與同儕共處時的困難,也盡量提醒自己慢一點,急不得。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">對於能看清這件事,真心覺得差太多了! 我很滿意自己的轉變,也對阿樂充滿信心。 相信他會慢慢的,找到自己與他人應對的方式。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">歡迎您,一起來和我們共學,一起來練習理解自己和孩子</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">【最新免費講座】</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">✨2022/08/06 - 08/07大腳小腳親子共學全國家庭教育實踐班</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">馬上報名👉https://reurl.cc/e31Kgm</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">✨2022/07/16 - 09/03「兒童人權」家庭教育系列線上講座</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; 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/></div></span></div><p><br /></p>evahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02535725967517112050noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-69256821645727317222022-10-30T13:59:00.006+08:002022-10-30T13:59:26.004+08:00 【海洋父母心系列】海教的事-海參老師<p><br /></p><span id="docs-internal-guid-9cdcf84a-7fff-d334-3208-baca2270ef3c"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvBTnuSMhfZ8aMGdJimhWASVUZ5R3JnVcdzNVR8zmX_Ba7YDcwRHaCgRDGx9zCd0NhscLN83O3TY0_EebEB-_Mm23Po1KDVO4N8F5h2S3Jifqvoa8j69TFGOVIYFqeJPdZyMZRbPjgDO68MqAFP7e5XpGHLUef3OxC7p4BTpiBbltMTg3O1ZNUm1yWbA/s1080/%E7%B7%A8%E8%99%9F41.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvBTnuSMhfZ8aMGdJimhWASVUZ5R3JnVcdzNVR8zmX_Ba7YDcwRHaCgRDGx9zCd0NhscLN83O3TY0_EebEB-_Mm23Po1KDVO4N8F5h2S3Jifqvoa8j69TFGOVIYFqeJPdZyMZRbPjgDO68MqAFP7e5XpGHLUef3OxC7p4BTpiBbltMTg3O1ZNUm1yWbA/s320/%E7%B7%A8%E8%99%9F41.png" width="320" /></a></div><br /></span><p></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">文、圖:林燕屏(暖蛇新竹團低年級導師暨母職)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我們發現了黑海參,蝌蚪這趟發現了戴面鏡的美好。一到海邊開始瘋狂探險,發現黑海參後摸摸牠許久許久。期間想放回海裡又捨不得,最後跟我說想養牠~。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">大人們開始搜索這個是什麼樣的生物呢?這隻應該是在海底的清道夫。而蝌蚪周圍的孩子們開始找些小岩石放在海參旁,也裝了滿滿海水帶回民宿。老媽想著把海參帶回一天在民宿觀察再和蝌蚪討論後續。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">和幾個大人討論海水缸需要的環境和器具</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">第二天早上,海參張開了牠的口部觸手在進行捕食。原本想說牠生活得不錯,打算去裝一堆海水回來,沒想到下午這隻做了自割反應,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">和蝌蚪說黑海參覺得有危險了,所以有這樣的反應。但後續如果回到海裡或是養牠的環境控制得好,牠會慢慢恢復的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">蝌蚪想了想說要放回海裡,他要他的海參活下去!我們立馬啟程去海邊。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我和蝌蚪討論要把它放回哪?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">最後共同選了有大岩石的地方,想說海參能找地方休養。蝌蚪叫我放回海裡,隨後他和海參kiss bye,跟牠揮手道別。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">小琉球的潮間帶有著滿滿生物,沒過多久,就見到蝌蚪拿了隻陽隧足過來。他說游呀游的時候,這隻就黏在他的面鏡上。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 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pre-wrap;">https://lit.link/taoppeit</span></a></p><div><br /></div>evahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02535725967517112050noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-66897860035645431682022-10-30T13:57:00.010+08:002022-10-30T13:57:58.463+08:00【姊姊他們不能這樣】<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnIqGNowHcwVYf4wZZwgvz4IMuSqQfUEBS7_AzBBqjn5vyhU0GkvDyhcyUooJxc4FrXuJF6PWacZq0eXuOffApKEjPkcmvLwTmJdEXKmdfk91OIf9kT14r2X3qV34QADHNgPwbW6Rw0jNuP8aLWDj2HOm4jpFy6x_RUCBMFGk_nvfh-pnHAjy4vGDzpQ/s1080/%E7%B7%A8%E8%99%9F40.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="461" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnIqGNowHcwVYf4wZZwgvz4IMuSqQfUEBS7_AzBBqjn5vyhU0GkvDyhcyUooJxc4FrXuJF6PWacZq0eXuOffApKEjPkcmvLwTmJdEXKmdfk91OIf9kT14r2X3qV34QADHNgPwbW6Rw0jNuP8aLWDj2HOm4jpFy6x_RUCBMFGk_nvfh-pnHAjy4vGDzpQ/w461-h461/%E7%B7%A8%E8%99%9F40.png" width="461" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><p></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap; white-space: pre;">文、圖:黃婉茹(大腳小腳台東親子共學團)</span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-b88b7640-7fff-cf10-61da-08b3ea762b70"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">昨天也是三寶的夥伴來我們家玩,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">家裏總共6孩,很熱鬧。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">6歲的兒子弟估一直在提醒大家小聲,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">因為擔心很怕吵的鄰居會抗議。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">他一下子提醒弟弟腳步輕一點,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">一下子叫姊姊跟朋友大笑小聲一點,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">最後,他大哭了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">他跑來找我,哭著說:「他們為什麼都不聽~~~。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我說:「還是那我再去幫你跟他們再說一下鄰居的狀況呢?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">他哭著搖頭。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我說:「你很希望他們能小聲一點,因為你很擔心鄰居會來抗議?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">他想了一下,但還是搖頭。而且有點生氣。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我心想,這不是你剛剛生氣的原因嗎?為什麼不是呢?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我突然想起了《非暴力溝通》裡面在說的:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">「去覺察對方深層的感受跟需求,比較可以看見對方真心想傳達的訊息或需求。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">啊~</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我抱著他說:「你是不是因為擔心鄰居會敲牆壁,其實平常壓力就很大?很擔心自己一旦忘記又會不小心吵到鄰居吼?應該不只是今天而已對嗎?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">他點點頭,哭聲停了。然後,他又說,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">「而且我也覺得這樣我耳朵也很不舒服。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">「還有,我覺得姊姊他們都習慣不立刻回應洛韶,所以洛韶就要用很大聲一直重複的講話讓人家聽到。就很吵。姊姊他們不能這樣。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我說:「所以你裡面也有看到洛韶的辛苦,覺得有點心疼,有希望姊姊他們改變回應洛韶的速度。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">他說嗯。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">說完這些,他就決定坐在樓下繼續玩。不知道是不是話都說出來了,情緒看起來好很多…</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">哇,好神奇喔。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">回顧一下:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">第一次我說:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">「那我去幫你跟他們再說一下呢?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我直接提供一個建議,但是沒有核對也沒有對應到他的深層焦慮,也不理解他日常累積的情緒或觀察。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">第二次我說:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">「你很希望他們能小聲一點,因為你很擔心鄰居會來抗議?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">雖然有做到描述現況,但是比較是表面行動的陳述。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">第三次我說:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">「你是不是因為擔心鄰居會敲牆壁,其實平常壓力就很大?很擔心自己一旦忘記又會不小心吵到鄰居吼?應該不只是今天而已對嗎?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">似乎真正的對應到他的焦慮。此刻的爆炸,其實也有來自日常的累積。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">覺察對方深層的感受跟需求,而不停留在他表面的用字遣詞,比較可以看見對方真心想傳達的訊息或需求。而且,可以讓對方繼續對話,講出更多他自己。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">太神奇啦~~~~~。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">歡迎您,一起來和我們共學,一起來練習理解自己和孩子</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: 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baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">從小我就是大人眼中的乖小孩,我習慣去遵循大人的規則,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">當我做的事情不符合大人期待的時候,我就會覺得自己不好,然後去修正它。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">大人當然很喜歡這樣的小孩,聽話、乖巧、意見少!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">小時候,是遵循爸媽的價值觀;長大了,是用別人的價值觀來檢視自己。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">在這個長大的過程中,我失去了我自己!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">很多時候我不知道自己要什麼,混混噩噩跟著整個社會的步調升學、工作、結婚、生小孩…</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">從青春期開始我就很常想「人為什麼要活著?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我沒有答案,我還是過一天算一天,追求各種小確幸。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">不知道活著的意義是什麼,但也還是這樣活下去。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這樣駝鳥的生活方式在有了小孩之後有了翻天覆地的轉變,在母職裡的被剝奪感讓我失去了各種生活中的小確幸。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">在沒日沒夜被孩子綁住的疲累中,朋友們一直告訴我「你要愛自己!」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">什麼是愛自己?我不知道啊!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">從小到大沒有人教過我愛自己,都是要我體諒別人、為別人著想,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我印象中,愛自己是不應該的、是自私的!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我開始期待伴侶分擔帶小孩的工作,希望我能有自己的空閒時間。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">但我的伴侶因為工作的關係無法做到,我能當全職媽媽就是他的高工時換來的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我體諒他,但同時我也非常不開心。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">「為什麼我不能想做什麼就去做?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我開始渴望能有時間做自己想做的事,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我渴望去上瑜伽,因為結婚前我一度想當瑜伽老師。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我想要找回那個瑜伽很厲害的自己、我想要再去嘗試當瑜伽老師的可能,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我覺得這樣努力證明自己沒有因為孩子失去原來的自己就是在愛自己!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這大概是四年前的我的想法,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">在進了共學團之後,有了很多覺察自己、深挖自己的機會。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我開始覺得那個「想做什麼就去做」的愛自己方式很表層。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">那時候的我很想去上瑜伽課,覺得能去上瑜伽課就是我愛自己的方式。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">所以我用「能不能順利上瑜伽課來判斷我有沒有成功愛自己」。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">如果要深層一點,應該去挖「為什麼想上瑜伽課」,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我仔細想了以後發現,因為那是結婚前我喜歡的,是我擅長的,可以有成就感的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我想籍由上瑜伽課去感受那個「我覺得比較好的自己」,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">除此之外,我還希望能恢復苗條的身形,把自己的外貌維持好,就會覺得我有在愛自己!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這些背後的原因都在跟「現在的我」切割,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我沒有愛現在的我,怎麼能說是在愛自己呢?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">所以就要繼續挖「為什麼我不愛現在的我」?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我很容易否定自己,覺得自己不值得被愛,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">很多跟伴侶日常的爭吵都會讓我連結到「我沒有被愛的價值」,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">那麼我首先該做的是肯定自己,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">去看自己花多少心力在理解孩子、在努力順應孩子的需求、在好好跟孩子說話。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這些辛苦不管別人有沒有看到,我都應該先肯定自己。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">只要我可以真心的肯定自己、看到自己的好,這就是我在愛自己了!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我體會到真正的愛自己不是去得到自己想要的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">而是去更深的認識自己,去接納真實的自己、肯定自己,去真真切切的愛你自己的全部。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">當我把上瑜伽跟愛自己連結在一起的時候,我會在無法上瑜伽課時候非常不開心(例如:老公無法顧小孩、小孩不願意離開媽媽),</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我會覺得我被剝奪了照顧自己的權利,然後開始去計較老公擁有多少屬於他自己的時間。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">但是在我釐清自己真正想要的愛自己方式是什麼之後,上瑜伽課變成只是我喘口氣的選項之一而已,沒有辦法上課也可以用其他喘息方式替代。就不會在無法上瑜伽課的時候有那麼強烈的被剝奪感了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">至於對當瑜伽老師的那個執念,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我也釐清了其實我不是真的想教瑜伽,</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我只是迫切的想找一個除了當全職媽媽以外的選項來證明自己。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這也是受社會價值觀對全職媽媽的價值貶低的影響,並不是我真正想要的!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">當我覺察出這一切之後,</span></p><p dir="ltr" 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/></div></span>evahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02535725967517112050noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-51302395734677857122022-10-30T13:53:00.008+08:002022-10-30T13:53:49.069+08:00【要從這裡開始】——游戲場專欄<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlYMfckk0C783eIw4mjVg1iIDhwqrj9LKeDvUHje6gwAV7t82fF3cTb8UpEQyxRFoPoM1w4I4KI-VO44_rSUyNoV-vJEanOta2osUwRuiGDiiO_HwmA2XaG5qv8ittFcs2XIiEEKiFbMFZm8xx5GyamAp79Oc24gE-apnmhCZ6jSSKyf7IJXHAETvH7A/s2048/%E8%A6%81%E5%BE%9E%E9%80%99%E8%A3%8F%E9%96%8B%E5%A7%8B.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="431" 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margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">每當路人父母告訴孩子「要從這裡開始」,現場的夥伴們會機靈的說「哪裡都可以開始玩哦!也可以移動輪胎和木板自由創造玩法。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">當我們習慣溜滑梯要怎麼溜才是「正確的」、遊具怎麼玩才是「可以的」、「被接受的」,那創造遊戲主體的孩子,他們的需求、好奇心、挑戰力可能被忽視,偏偏遊戲之中最迷人的就是這些,2個梯子、超過15個輪胎、10個木板、2個木條,加上小孩的創造力,還有親職們(大小孩XD)的,玩出很多有趣的排列組合~親職們有時候會把自己當成阻礙物,讓小孩增加前進的困難度(有小孩自己想辦法突破可惡的障礙物勇往直前XD,很好笑也很好玩)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">你想要獨木橋、或是穩固的木板橋,我們可以隨時調整。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">你想要增加挑戰度,練習不同身體能力,我們可以調整高度,或是變成彈跳前進。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">你想要溜滑梯,我們可以創造不同高度跟不同角度。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">然而,當你不小心跌倒了,我們可以做的是—關心你的心情和需要被照顧的身體。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這裡的每個大人,都在一個僵固的社會裡,慢慢共同創造友善小孩的環境,鬆動結構中的壓迫,讓小苗、小花們得以在日復一日的遊戲裡好好的、開心的長大~而創造這樣的環境就是大人的責任,你願意一起來當這樣的大人嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: 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font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">💟關注 #親子共學,一起成為兒權推手 </span><a href="https://lit.link/taoppeit" style="text-decoration-line: none;"><span style="color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; text-decoration-line: underline; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">https://lit.link/taoppeit</span></a></p><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div></span></div><p><br /> </p>evahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02535725967517112050noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-21412028833634252452022-10-30T13:50:00.003+08:002022-10-30T13:50:16.570+08:00 【我剛才在叫妳】<p><br /></p><span id="docs-internal-guid-4450af7a-7fff-c0d3-ba94-22b726a6614a"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a 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font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">文、圖:李佳紜(桃園平日團領隊、台灣親子共學教育促進會理事)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">週三共學到傍晚,我在盪鞦韆旁,一邊幫宥辰推盪鞦韆,一邊跟團員談話。在有點距離玩著旋轉杯的姵希,突然衝過來、很生氣地對著我大喊:「我剛才在叫妳!」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">本來就一心二用的我,突然被這一下喊得莫名其妙,便用理直氣壯的語氣說:『我沒有聽到啊!所以妳要跟我說什麼?』</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">姵希跺著腳,生氣地說:「已經來不及了!」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">然後用力地把我的手抓過去抱住她。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">聽到她這樣說,我內心也開始覺得冤枉,忍不住為自己抱屈:『我剛才是因為沒有聽到妳叫我,又不是不理妳,妳這樣讓我有一種被指責的感覺!』</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">若是按照以往的互動,這樣的回應會讓姵希情緒更高漲,然後我們就會開始彼此嘔氣。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">但這次她的反應截然不同:離開我的懷抱,稍微平靜一點,說:「我沒有說妳不理我。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我在訝異之餘,也跟著稍微冷靜下來,說:『那妳剛才是為了什麼事情叫我?』</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">姵希說:「是因為旋轉杯轉太快了,我覺得會怕,想要叫妳幫我停下來,但是妳都沒聽到,所以我就自己跳下來了。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我想了想,她玩了一整個下午,都沒有要我幫忙停下來,猜測可能是跟這次去玩之前,對於其他人有不愉快的心情累積。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">『妳剛才的心情一定很緊張吧?所以就把情緒丟到我身上了嗎?』我問</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">「我沒有要把情緒丟到妳身上!我是真的很緊張!我怕自己跳下來會跌倒!」姵希穩穩地說。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">『因為妳剛剛衝過來的時候很生氣,我想知道發生什麼事了,妳又說來不及了,我一下子突然有一種被指責的感覺。』我說完之後,沈默地想著:為什麼我會有被指責的感覺呢?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這時姵希又開口,打破我的沉思,說:「我沒有想要指責妳,那我要怎麼說,才不會讓妳覺得被指責呢?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">天啊!我突然又有一種角色對調的感覺!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">於是我也認真回應:『如果妳一開始就告訴我發生什麼事了,可能會有所不同吧?』</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">姵希聽完想了想,說:「妳的意思是說,要告訴妳我很緊張嗎?就是,『馬迷,我剛剛需要妳幫忙我停下來,可是妳都沒聽到我在叫妳!』是這樣子嗎?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">『嗯⋯⋯』我思考了一下『或者是,我問妳的時候,妳也願意告訴我,這樣應該也是可以的。』</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">「好!」姵希很認真地點點頭。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">『我問妳一件事哦,就是啊,剛才那個盪鞦韆被碰到身體的事情,妳還是覺得很不開心嗎?』我問。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">「對!」一想到這件事,姵希又皺起眉頭。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">『那妳覺得這個不開心,跟剛才妳要我幫忙停下來,有沒有關係啊?』我問。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">姵希沉思了許久,說:「我覺得有,是因為本來就已經不開心了,又因為另一件事讓我更不開心!」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">『這樣聽起來,前面一個不開心還是在影響妳,那妳有想要去說清楚嗎?』</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">「要!而且我想要妳陪我一起去跟他說!」姵希毫不思索而且意志堅定。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: 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font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">「登山課」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這次登山課後的返程,跟伴侶在車上講登山課後開會的內容,怕我忘記了就沒法寫紀錄了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">但是在跟他講的過程中,也有一些梳理和討論,其中一段讓我對自學,對實驗教育又有了一些新的感悟。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">小孩進來暖蛇快一年,這期間不論是海洋或者是登山,每次出發前,伴侶都會問:「我們為什麼要帶孩子去做這些?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">舒舒服服的待在乾淨的教室不好嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">大熱天吹著冷氣不好嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">為什麼要風吹日曬雨淋?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">通常可以用比較概括的語句去回:「因為不要跟自然斷裂,要親近海洋親近山林啊!」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這是政治正確的回應,但假如用實際操作來回應親近山林,大概有一百種。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">究竟怎樣才不是跟自然斷裂呢?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">芷芳有一句話直入我心底:「這不是體驗,而是一種生活方式。你選擇了什麼樣的生活方式。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我們大多是都市生活型態下長大的,對於山海並沒有那麼熟悉。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">以我們的生活為基準點,往外拓展,可能願意讓孩子在海的邊邊玩玩水,就會是非常大的突破了,期待這樣的突破會拓展了孩子的視野,讓孩子的未來有更多的選擇。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">所以這樣問題就會集中在:我為什麼一定要去登山?一定要登山攀岩才是親近山林親近自然嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">這類的問題走向,還是集中在一個「課」」最表層的效益。像是我們成人通常上課,會想精確的知道付出的學費對等的交換價值是多少?我可以學到什麼東西?我可以更新什麼技能?我可以增加什麼履歷上的條目等等。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">芷芳提到她並不是要登山課變成一種體驗式的課。這背後代表的,是一種生活方式的選擇。把我從這種效益的思考循環中拉了出來。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我們在陪著孩子自學的時候,最不想做的便是侷限了孩子發展的空間。走自學,還是走體制,好多父母糾結的點也在這裡。如果我都不會,我會不會限制住了孩子呢。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">但並不是大人掌握的資源不夠會限制孩子,而是大人為孩子創造資源的意願以及行動,才會影響孩子的學習。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">低年級的孩子大部分時候會覺得新鮮,可能多數時候,都願意去試一試,看一看,但是隨著年紀的發展,倘若他們願意試一試、看一看的這些東西沒有持續的堆疊,持續的突破,他們並不會認為這是一個他未來可以發展的方向。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">記得芷芳第一次登山課就說:「我並不覺得每個人都要去登山,但是我希望他們如果有一天想走進山林,他會有能力做這件事。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">可是如果對孩子來說,戶外本身就是不舒適的存在,而他們並沒有疊加起這些在戶外生活,或者說登山,攀岩的知識和能力,其實等到孩子大了,這些東西是不可能出現在他生活的選項裡的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">也就是說,在前期如果我們並沒有持續的去陪伴孩子精進突破某樣東西,也等同於這個選擇從孩子的選擇域中刪除了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">未來的多元可能,是建立在你先擁有這個選項的基礎之上。一次、兩次的嘗試與體驗,很難建築起孩子的自信,讓他有足夠的信心可以自己持續的朝著這條路走下去。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">以前聽過所謂因材施教,特長教育,和真正的實驗教育是不一樣的。現在似乎明白為何不一樣了。因為大人不去一直支持著孩子拓展各種選擇的時候,孩子很容易依循著現在家庭的社經背景,教育環境給出的樣貌,過早的被定性,複製出類似的興趣或特長,並一直發展下去,抹煞了孩子的無限可能。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">登山課不僅僅是登山課,而是緊緊扣著人的自主學習這件事。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">——————————————</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">回頭來說,如果不是小孩,我大概這輩子都不會去做攀岩這個事。就算不得不面對要開上高速公路這種比攀岩更恐怖的事,但我肯定也不會把它當成是生活中會跟我相遇的事。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我的小孩也怕高,她上次登山課攀岩碰都沒碰,這次居然也願意攀看看,我覺得自己常被她的熱情感染。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11.5pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: 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/></span></div></span>evahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02535725967517112050noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-86613104969515434422022-10-30T13:37:00.004+08:002022-10-30T13:37:40.919+08:00【一歲的小葵退回了我的好意】<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiE1H3lanLiYzwv-mtx92jkpD5hIwGPIZF3VcprENlIPmaetjHsl-sHnd3magofkFd4L7BbxTB3YSnZRQlJ4NW4U3eOGHS4H5iWQDv7ezYxwvEwGZUhittoKd1bMsG-uocBhgCJUBFkTT8axzp5OqytIUFnwlxuJTzmod0K9DrdCkbWYCEtR5fcjgTMBA/s640/%E3%80%90%E4%B8%80%E6%AD%B2%E7%9A%84%E5%B0%8F%E8%91%B5%E9%80%80%E5%9B%9E%E4%BA%86%E6%88%91%E7%9A%84%E5%A5%BD%E6%84%8F%E3%80%91%E2%80%8B.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="480" data-original-width="640" height="346" 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#050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;"></span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">必須記錄下來這個發現</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">這個現象已經開始一陣子了</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">某次葵表示要下樓</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">我牽著他的手</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">有鑒於最近他對自己下樓的能力頗有自信</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">看在媽媽眼裡就是一整個擔心</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">以往葵一步步小心探索的時候我都不擔心</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">但現在開始大步大步跨下去的時候</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">我真的非常擔心他重心不穩摔下去</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">於是我牽著葵的手</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">是用一根手指讓葵牽著</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">其他四根手指握住他小小的手腕</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">為了他可能的失誤做準備</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;"></span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">結果</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">葵在發現他的手腕被握住的時候</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">把我的手扯開</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">直接重新一次再抓住我的食指</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">這是代表什麼意思?</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">我的好意被退回了!</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">葵覺得不需要</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">他需要的是剛剛好的陪伴、剛剛好的協助</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">一點點不需要多</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">也不能少(少了就哇哇叫)</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;"></span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">這是我第一次發現</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">原來孩子是如此敏銳自己所做的挑戰</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">每天在成長的過程中</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">他們對自己能力的評估</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">以及不足之處的問題</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">想辦法找到資源來支應</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">並且為了持續堆疊自我的發展</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">不容妥協的堅持</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;"></span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">這是我首次在一件事上明顯的看到</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">一歲的孩子他們自然而然的主體性</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">主動、主導、獨立思考跟判斷</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">他們在掌舵</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">在領悟到孩子在主導著自己生命的發展後</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">完全無法小看孩子</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;"></span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">孩子不應被視為無能無知的</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">因為他們時常在有限的認知跟能力中</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">做出最高程度的自我挑戰</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">把這個程度放大到大人的生活中</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">會發現</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">孩子們的學習跟成長的速度</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">可能是大人世界的光速</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">而他們對世界的好奇跟挑戰</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">也包含大人望塵莫及的信心與勇氣</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">「愛孩子」與「礙孩子」的區別</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">是在於有沒有敏感孩子的需要</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;"></span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">當給予過多時</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">那麼我們能接受孩子退回我們的愛(礙)嗎?</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">我在親子共學裡培養了敏感孩子與觀察自己的能力,一步步學習只愛孩子,不要礙孩子,八月有實體的實踐班,大推~</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">-----------------------------</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">【最新活動】</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;" /><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; display: inline-flex; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><img alt="✨" height="16" referrerpolicy="origin-when-cross-origin" src="https://static.xx.fbcdn.net/images/emoji.php/v9/t7b/1.5/16/2728.png" style="animation-name: none !important; border: 0px; transition-property: none !important;" width="16" /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">2022/9/3-4(全國線上)家庭教育實踐班</span><br style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, 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x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv xzsf02u x1s688f" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%85%8D%E8%B2%BB%E8%AC%9B%E5%BA%A7?__eep__=6&__tn__=*NK*F" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; animation-name: none !important; background-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation; transition-property: none !important;" tabindex="0">#免費講座</a></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;"> </span><span style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;"><a class="x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv xzsf02u x1s688f" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E8%A6%AA%E5%AD%90?__eep__=6&__tn__=*NK*F" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; animation-name: none !important; background-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation; transition-property: none !important;" tabindex="0">#親子</a></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;"> </span><span style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important;"><a class="x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv xzsf02u x1s688f" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E6%95%99%E9%A4%8A?__eep__=6&__tn__=*NK*F" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; animation-name: none !important; background-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation; transition-property: none !important;" tabindex="0">#教養</a></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;"> </span><div class="x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv xzsf02u x1s688f" role="button" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #050505; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; touch-action: manipulation; transition-property: none !important;" tabindex="0">顯示較少</div>evahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02535725967517112050noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-88886297663596142652022-10-30T13:35:00.004+08:002022-10-30T13:35:19.821+08:00【我畫的是直升機啊!】<p> </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyRRoUBR93g6FLP5Wh9kTdD4smhon6kvZtsLIpgNglRS0US_aYJAB1s3s3pkAXNoqmUypEqY-rxQPgFBwJQav01_KzVZHgnZF2gOBv6Yolanl46h8rqFhrIIdSBCcN7jMKJaPa-mAr2eI0hKY4u13DsTAsheLLjHDoSnp-K4PTF17cDJS-Hjmutq_4Fw/s843/294251933_5389306784440970_1769331799626764698_n.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="843" data-original-width="843" height="424" 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class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">我五歲的女兒點點很喜歡畫畫,她的畫風活潑多變,從人物表情、四肢變化到生活周遭都是她畫畫的題材,還塗上豐富的色彩。</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">相對地,我七歲的兒子宸宸就沒那麼喜歡畫畫,他平常不太主動提筆作畫,只有偶爾想到某個圖案或形狀想要畫下來才會去畫,他的畫風也趨於單調,大多數都是拿鉛筆單線條的畫而已,也不太幫畫上色。</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">每次看到點點的畫,我嘴角都不自覺上揚,看到宸的畫時,我就沒有明顯表情變化。</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">某天我在書房使用電腦,點點在客廳畫完一個圖畫興奮的拿來給我看(我已經不記得當時他是畫什麼了),我開心回應著點點,稱讚他畫很棒。</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">沒多久,宸也拿他的畫作給我看,我乍看沒看懂他畫什麼,心想:「怎麼沒有門、沒有窗戶、也沒有後面的螺旋槳…」</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">宸說:「我畫的是直升機啊!」</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">其實,我小時候也是喜歡畫畫的,猶記得幼稚園到小二時,我喜歡觀摩人物所以常能自己創作畫出一些人物的畫,也常得到大人的讚美,但不知何時開始我漸漸畫不出這種自己創作的畫,反而很會畫模仿畫。</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">小四時有次學校的美勞作業,我因為不知該畫什麼,就以我當時的彩色筆外盒上的圖案作畫交出,沒想到老師覺得畫得不錯就代表班級拿去比賽還得到名次,我當時超驚訝也很開心,而且一直被稱讚,整個人輕飄飄,好想要再感受一次。</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">那次得名後,某次校內舉辦繪畫比賽,老師鼓勵我去報名,我不假思索的就答應了。到了比賽當天,我坐在桌前,畫不出來,也不知要畫什麼,看著旁邊同學各個大筆揮毫的模樣,我心裡真羨慕,記得我當時覺得好緊張不知道該怎麼辦,但沒有靈感就是沒有,最後…我交回了一張白圖畫紙,走出教室的心情真是羞愧到極點,好像那不是我該去的地方,也很害怕老師來問我為什麼沒有畫。</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">現在我看點點會想到兒時快樂畫畫的我,看到宸宸會想到小四畫畫比賽交白卷的我。</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">我閱讀《愛的藝術》看到一段話很有感觸:</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">「無條件的愛是人類最深切的渴望之一,不僅兒童如此,人類的每一份子都是如此;另一方面說,如果因為我有優點,因為我值得愛才被愛,這往往在心中留下疑慮;對於我想要他愛我的人,我很可能不能討好他,或許是這一方面不能討好他,或許是那一方面不能討好他———但總是恐懼著這個愛會消失。」</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">宸說:「我畫的是直升機啊!」</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span 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pre-wrap;">越是與人有更深入的交流後,發現「自我否定」似乎每個人多少都有一點,於是我好奇每個人的自我否定是如何養成的?又或是如何「被造成的」?</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">直到某次我忽然意識到,每個人天生應該都有自我肯定的能力,啟發我的是我那才兩歲多的鵝紙豬~</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">打從他開始會說話,開始會自我表達意見和思想後,他常常稱讚自己,常出現的句型有:</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">豬豬好棒!</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">豬豬好厲害!</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">豬豬會了!</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">通常他出現這樣的言論時,都是在他自己做了某件事情後,例如成功搭起了積木大樓、自己去小馬桶尿尿、自己開燈、自己拿叉子(凡舉他自己獨立完成的事)而他稱讚自己時,我只是附和他一下(通常我不會特別激動,除非是他學了新技能的第一次)</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">平常相處多以感謝孩子的行為來取代稱讚,但我有時也是會發自內心的想稱讚他們,這很正常。</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">直到某次又與夥伴討論到兒時經驗造成的自我否定感後,隔天,豬豬又因為自己做了某件事而感到自己棒棒時,我問他:為什麼覺得豬豬好厲害?是覺得現在的豬豬比起北鼻時候的豬豬更厲害是嗎?</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">豬豬:嗯!(帶著自信滿滿的表情)</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; 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x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv x1qq9wsj xo1l8bm" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E6%95%99%E9%A4%8A?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZWY1akSP-pnrzFYAlCoRPDSv28f0oiaiwISFVO0I-cnTZ29a60Xhwjtck5qq9wUcmoFUFX2n48hiqzkfcpPURJjEUE6EqQmTDqqJde_cpaptVz7ltyy45gJt9692X2YLMIKjxjBK7D-IvcEEKxMtB3p&__tn__=*NK-R" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; animation-name: none !important; background-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation; transition-property: none !important;" tabindex="0">#教養</a></span></div>evahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02535725967517112050noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6232205442887774177.post-21327293657250277902022-10-30T13:26:00.009+08:002022-10-30T13:26:48.019+08:00【為何T不會拒絕妳嘗嘗看的邀請?】<div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjw5uSug3ereXJDVhbIF_nanmkyjcYWPoKvvPn04HLfnO29lF-DFs2ERbpbJ4sK-Oh4mLSOg02UCQ8rH3cpEXmephgkjApIOncoJOwb7Q08xs4W1bM4kGFqt7A4yf0MEe8EWy7qkrQqpT0_6sphC-4QKOA9PA9YJAF96QhWoZDreAsdxPYkYgqFVnT7uQ/s600/295655259_5407469815958000_679214219021174841_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="503" 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pre-wrap;">最近常想起一個畫面,有一堂暖蛇的低年級導師時間,那天是邀請所有孩子帶家鄉特色的食物來進行介紹與分享。有苗栗的三角圓、彰化的肉圓、台中的珍珠奶茶、東勢的甜碗粿、各式冰品、埔里的百香果等。雖然後來T幾乎都只在吃珍奶和ㄔㄨㄚˋ冰,但當東勢的夥伴A經過,分了一口甜碗粿給我時,便詢問了T要不要嘗嘗看,T點點頭,然後咬了一小口後,隨即露出嫌惡的表情。我覺得很好笑,不以為意就自己把甜碗粿吃完了,是很特別、沒嘗過的口味。</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none 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font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">然後夥伴B的回饋,開啟了我留意和T在食物上的互動觀察。像是昨晚T吃飯時,我才注意到他是吃一吃就跑走了,去客廳玩一玩玩具,摸一摸、按一按,然後又回來扒一口飯;再整個人壓到已經吃飽,正癱在餐桌旁地上的我身上;接著趴臥在長長的餐椅上,拿捲尺來量餐椅的長度和自己的身高,要我協助看看差多少;玩捲尺......。最後吃完後,以把打翻剛裝的整杯果汁牛奶,然後自己去收拾做收尾。我在想是共學後我的底線越來越寬?而看著他像不斷扭動的蟲般奔來跑去,一刻也停不下來,也思索若孩子被要求乖乖坐好吃飯,應該也是一件很痛苦的事吧!</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; 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color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;">也觀察到T對自己身體的感受是很理解的。例如飽了、餓了、冷了等,透過不強迫他(例如不要求一定要吃完、自己裝想要吃的量等練習),讓他對自己身體的需求有敏感,並也願意同照顧者傳達,像是今天早餐他請我弄4顆水煮蛋,之後他自己跑來說,他吃飽了,想要留下一顆。在照顧者的想要(想要孩子吃完早餐),以及孩子自己需求的表達(只吃得下一定分量)這中間的差距,就是彼此持續練習傾聽和尊重的空間。</div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; transition-property: none !important; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="animation-name: none !important; display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; transition-property: none !important; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="animation-name: none !important; background-color: 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